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I have been secretly collecting womens undergarments and wearing them all the time. I find it invigorating and exciting to go out into the world, the sensual feel brings out the real woman in me but now I feel the need to progress into the next step but the fear and apprehension is overwhelming and I’m not sure if I can even get to that point of actually start purchasing some outfits. I sure could use some advice cuz family and my kids would be devastated but on the flip side, I feel the same devastated myself if I don’t continue on this wonderful path.
thank you
Dalia
Dalia welcome happy you have joined Cdh . Your in good company, many here have experience similar difficulties. Get to know us better and learn to understand more of what's happening and meet, talk with our beautiful ladies who which love sharing their advice and wisdom. Having an friend always helps a person here cope with our passions and encourage ourselves to build the confinance to deal with our feelings . A fine line when it comes to family and friends . Most of us deal with these troubling situations with no right answer . I hope you all the best and maybe if circumstances change that time will materializes . To me I felt that if dressing feels right and I'm happy, than it's good for me and that the only thing that matters. Happy to meet you and as one of your ambassadors and you have a question or two please be free to PM me, love to help.
Stephanie 🌹
hello and welcome to C.D.H. you made your first move to join this site. us girls are very under standing and very friendly.the sensation of wearing female cloths are price less. for going out is a different story. but for buying female stuff in a store is a thrill. seeing the sales person and cashier is something to see what they think or ask. to progress further in x dressing if you don't want your kids to see you , you must do when they are not around if that is possible. for me my wife knows and daughter might realize i dress up for she is the one who found a pic of me dressed up and showed mom. daughter said to mom its his body. but still i do not dress up when 2 adult kids are home. wife will tell me its ok for me to do what i like to do and i dress up. wife has seen me allot of times but will not sit and talk like 2 woman and ask me how i feel dressed up as a female, why i dress up. i have answers for all them. i but my own dresses on line and make up and perfume in stores. nylons, panties, pads, bras in stores. skirts on line but hard to find my correct size. i am 55 years old and a waist of a 28 to 30 all depending on what it is.dresses are easy to get. i have been a x dresser for years since about 13. off for years and later in life came back and never left. i love dressing up in female cloths its more comfortable to wear and feels great. wind blowing against your nylon legs, looking so pretty. being in the closet so to speak is tough but i do dress up when i can. i dress up in winter time, panties, pad, nylons, bra, dress then my ugly boring male cloths and go do what i do for the day no one sees my female cloths. except wife she can tell i am wearing a bra but when when i have my winter coat on no none can see it. well good luck and welcome.
I've worn my mothers hand me down pantyhose and borrowed her heels since I was 4. At 13 I knew I liked tan sheer to waist best. I also wanted pantyhose that fit and had no runs or holes in them. I began buying my own.
At 17 at the coercing of an ex girlfriend I wore pantyhose out in public with shorts. I thought my look needed improvement so I began buying and wearing pantyhose with short girl's shorts and not too sexy but leg enhancing girl's shoes. I began to shop for and buy more pantyhose, shorts and shoes dressed that way.
One day while out and waiting on line to buy a bunch of pantyhose a girl behind me asked me about the pantyhose I was buying, how I liked them and if they were what I was wearing. She thought they looked really good. Upon realizing I wasn't a girl, she asked if I wore other girl's clothes or just pantyhose. I pointed out I was also wearing girl's shorts and shoes also but that was the extent of it.
She thought I might like to try other things. A couple of weeks later she bought some lingerie for me to try. Then she thought I should dress as a girl for a Halloween party. We went out and bought several outfits. Once I got used to the very sexy heels and could do a little makeup I wanted to dress that way all the time.
I went to the party dressed fem and loved it. Being dressed pretty and sexy among others was such an awesome and amazing experience. I also met other dressers who invited me to party with them. I went out and bought so many things. Shoes, dresses, pantyhose, bras, panties, wigs, skirts, tops every type of cosmetic and female clothing item you can think of. By the time I finished college I had enough clothes to have my own store.
There was countless times I had fear off the charts. Every time I did something new or went to the next step I was petrified. I guess I wanted it bad enough and the thrill, rush, anticipation and love of it dragged me through. I guess that's how others do it too.
