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Finding motivation

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I have been on here not even a week and i don't feel so alone anymore. I have been dressing for years, I can't even remember how young I was when I started. I do know that it is a a part of me and I have actually told my SO and she is supportive. In just a few days I feel that I almost have the courage to go out in public more and not feel so afraid. It definitely helps to know that I'm not alone in the struggle, I have a big family of fabulous girls that have been there and will be on here when I need to talk to someone. Thank you

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I don’t know what to say except I’m really happy you found this site and that your SO is supporting you. I’m an SO and I may not have found the courage to support my partner without my friends here. Your SO might find it helpful too? Keep going love, we are all here if/when you need us xxx

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Welcome Iveigh.  I recently joined and it has changed my life.  I was so overwhelmed I started crying. Finally letting HER out and doing things I would never dare to before. I thought I was alone and a freak, then I found CDH.  It was a holly shit moment when I realized how many of us are out there and have travelled the same path.  You have found a home with a LOT of sisters that are just like you. Enjoy.  All my best. Mikayla

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Hi Iveigh, I'm so glad to read your post.   Oh, isn't it lovely after years of isolation to finally wave and say "Hi, I exist!".   Just a year ago I was still irrationally afraid to sign up to sites like this and what few clothes and makeup I had were locked in a suitcase "just in case", which was really daft as I've now been living alone for 3 years!

It is so comforting to find sites like this, people without prejudice who want to help support and encourage one another to be themselves.  And like Mikayla I've found the tears flowing both with joy and sadness with the things I have read.  Sharing is good for us all.

I'll echo what Iveigh said : "Thank you".  x

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Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Lveigh welcome, isn't it just wonderful knowing that there are many of us out there and now finding a place to where you can enjoy being who you are with others same mined girls  and all traveling simular paths. To meet with,  talk with and share our experiences with . to celebrate a calling and now have the place to express and experiences being a lady  that has always been hidden away inside us.  As our Confidence starts to show so does our urges to do more. From dressing more to wandering not just in close quarters but thoughts bubbling to possibly venturing out and about . One never knows what lies ahead but being part of this beautiful place our thoughts ,our imaginations can certainly move us to new heights . Happy to hear about your wife and her acceptance. It's so wonderful when we can enjoy our passion and share it with  someone close. Very happy to meet you and hope to see you here .

Stephanie 🌹

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Noble Member     Northampton, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome Iveigh.  It is a fabulous family and glad to have you be part of it!  There are some much that we can learn form each other and the support is amazing!

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(@cyberian2)
Noble Member     Elliot Lake, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Iveigh. Sweetie.....you are not alone....you have the best wishes and support of all of us girls! My new sister....I am always available to chat with you about anything! Whatever you do....I will be there....go Iveigh!!

Dame Veronica

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(@myfanwy)
Honorable Member     Mid Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Iveigh, I am new to this site but I have been a crossdresser since I was twelve.I came out to my wife fourteen years ago.Two years ago,she was finally accepting.Life is great,no more dressing in private when my dear S.O. was out.She buys me my clothes on a regular basis.Sometimes we shop together online,other times we shop together with me in man mode.Most gratifying of all,she comes back from shopping and chooses skirts and dresses for me and keeps me stocked up on tights.I consider myself that my wife is so accomodating.Her kindness and co-peration is deeply appreciated.I am sure that you are equally appreciative of your wife's understanding.

 

 

 

 

 

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Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome to CDH Iveigh,

So glad you are here in our little piece of heaven. I felt just as you upon joining CDH.

My new home online.

Chat soon,

-Terri Anne

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