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Hi. My first post I think.
Is there any reason why you shouldn't Xdress?
Im cool with it but just curious why others do it.
Sweet dreams ...xx
Hi honey
Have cds since teens. Feel the need to indulge and look enfemme.
Enjoy female clothes especially lace leather and killer heels. It is total escape for me when i an sam x
Hope this helps
Dee welcome. Ask those questions in our forums and I'm sure you'll hear from others with their many different reasons why they do dress and hear from many like myself wondering why I'm doing this and coming here trying to understand that very reason why. I enjoy it and enjoy meeting others and learning more about myself and where my journey may lead. The friends I made and their help and advice certainly made some sense of my dressing ever learning. Very nice having you back. Hugs
Stephanie 🌹
I've never hidden it or made much effort to.
Every one of my exs have understood after the initial shock. I think I do it because Im a bit kinky perhaps xx
Im in Buckinghamshire.
Are there any other members in the county?
Kind regards.....x
Good question! Don’t know the answer but it just keeps nagging at me and can’t stop. Don’t worry you’re normal and count it as a blessing a lot of guys don’t have this! Sandy.
hello Dee Dee and others, for me x dressing came to me when i was about 12 0r 13, had to wear tights in a school play and it was heaven, from there i wanted more, then went away for years. then came back stronger. now 56 and have my own collection of female attire. we have 3 adult kids 2 or now moved out and 1 still home so i dress up when he is at work, wife knows and i am told i can do what i like to do. she has seen me getting dressed up but will not let me sit in same room as her or help with make up. for me dressing up is part of me and i deal with it. plus helps me be relaxed and stress free and less panic attacks
Hi dee dee,
Welcome, as others have said many start cross dressing quite early. I started about age 11 or 12. Cross dressing can be a relaxing. In many cases we hurt no one (Not intentionally anyway). It’s enjoyable and provides an avenue to let go of a day’s stresses. In essence an escape from life’s trials and aggravation’s.
Alice
Hi Dee Dee,
one reason is when it hurts your marriage or adds a lot of pressure as it has mine.
Or possibly jepordises your relationship with your children.
I still can't stop I love it so.
Mine was there my entire life hiding in the shadows, but about two years ago I tried on some pleaser High heeled boots and that was the spark that ignited my fire.
We are so glad your here
Patty
The only times that I wouldn’t dress is if my wife is around . She still has a problem with it.
Hi Dee Dee !
Welcome to CDH !
Hugs
Autumn
Hi, Dee Dee,
There are circumstances which make cross dressing a bad idea, but if you are driven from within to do it, there are no legal, moral or ethical reasons why you should not. It fulfills a need for us.
I do it because I love it.
Welcome Dee Dee!
Welcome Dee
XXX Paula