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I'm a mature (65) and life long crossdresser, and identify as transgender. I’ve managed two long marriages, punctuated by two painful divorces, helped raise four good kids to adulthood and been an otherwise productive member of society. And yet, I’m still deeply conflicted. I have been on the self acceptance roller coaster for too long and I want to get off, allow myself some measure of peace and satisfaction .I would describe myself as halfway out. Some family members, neighbors, colleagues and friends know and have met me... others may suspect. Anyway, I know I share this bio with thousands of others. It good to be among those who can relate.
Hi Kim. Welcome to CDH. Self acceptance is really important to get some peace of mind and comfort although many conflicts are inescapable. Here you will have an unbeatable opportunity to share experiences with those who have been in similar situations. I feel animosity towards labels. I still try to find my innermost self after so many years. I am relatively comfortable at this time. CDH has helped me a lot in my journey. To understand myself and to enjoy a relative tranquility. I am convinced that here I have forged valuable friendships that respect me and support me. I belong to this beautiful community. In a sense that I have rarely experienced. Here I feel happy. I hope you can find the same in our home. My best wishes for you.
Cinnamon kisses
Gisela
Enjoy your journey!
I’m hopeful. Somehow, I must find a measure of emotional stability. Reverting to denial has not worked. I need, and if I’m honest, want to live and express this aspect of myself.
It actually feels good to even write the words, better still to express myself in real life.
Hello, Kim. I know how you feel. I, too, am 65 and been on that roller coaster. You're not alone, darling.
Thanks. It helps to know one isn’t alone!
Welcome Kim and you found the right place to be yourself. I love it here and I think you will too. There are a lot of great ladies here that love to help others and have gone through similar things as you have. I think you will find some great friends and maybe even a few that will help you through your journey as they have made the same journey. Again welcome to CDH.
Sara
Kim, Good morning
Thank you for being so honest; Be contented with who you are, it's just great to sit and feel your body and to remember you made the right decision; that inward feeling is so peaceful in my life, but I an a late starter;
Kelly
