Hallo, ich bin neu hier

Hello Karin and welcome to Cross Dresser Heaven. I don’t know if you can speak or read English, but I do not speak or read Deutschmark. I hope I spelled that correctly. I just didn’t want for you to feel alone because no one greeted you. I hope there are more cross dressers from Deautschland on here to help you feel a sense of belonging that many of us English speakers may not be able to help you with.

Take care, Jill

Hi Jill,

thank you so much for your response. I wrote in german because I thought it was translated in english. It takes quite some time to write in english as my autocorrect is for german. I wrote that about two weeks ago my husband told me that he is a crossdresser. At first it was difficult for me, however I told him I love and support him.

Take care

Karin

Guten tag, Karin. Meine Deutsch ist sehr schlecht aber es hört sich so an, als würden Sie „Ihrem Mann zur Seite stehen“, selbst wenn er sich als Frau verkleidet. Das ist wunderbar! Wilkomen auf CDH!

(Hello Karin. My German is very bad but it sounds like you’re going to “stand by your man” even if he dresses as a woman. That’s great! Welcome to CDH!)

Hi Karin welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you,

It must have been hard for you to accept that your husband is a crossdresser, not a lot of women stick by their husbands when they have learnt about what they like to do,

I suppose it's not a big deal in this day and age, there are lots of crossdresser's all over the world,

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie but I'm still in the closet, I know i should tell my family but I'm not sure if they will understand, I'm in the UK, I'm sure you and your husband will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

Hugs Rozalyn X

My German is not so good i only know a few words,

Hello Rozalyn, thank you so much for your response. It was easy to accept my husband being a crossdresser because I love him. My husband said tonight that he feels much better now that I know about him crossdressing. To be honest I had never heard of crossdressing before.  As Rolf my husband doesn't want to be taken pictures of. However as Deborah he enjoys it very much. Deborah spends a lot more time looking in the mirror than me. I hope your family will be by your side if ever you should find the strength to tell them.

Hugs from Stuttgart

Karin

Was für ein wunderbarer Partner du bist. Es ist nicht üblich, dass Frauen die Notwendigkeit des Crossdressings verstehen oder akzeptieren. Ich freue mich, dass Sie Ihren Mann so wertschätzen, dass Sie ihn in dieser Hinsicht unterstützen können. ich danke Ihnen für das Teilen!

Kim

You're welcome Karin, and thanks for your support,

Hugs Rozalyn X

Allo Karin und wilkommen in unserer familie!  Grűße aus Canada!

Stevie

Hi Karin,

Welcome to CDH.  As a spouse of a crossdresser be sure to look at the private forum for spouses and significant others.

Alice

Hi Karin nice to meet you and so happy you joined us girls here as a supportive wife you are a treasure to behold as some girls here have supportive wifes as myself included have been married 40 years and she has known Stephanie all of them so thank you for joining us and supporting your girlfriend /husband he he .. Please dont hesitate to ask many questions of these wondefull girls here and other wifes and significant others here also .. Again Karin nice to meet you and hope you stay around for a long while and chat with Girlfriend and see if she would like to join us girls here for a chat or two..

Stephanie Bass

Dear Karin,

Thank you so much for supporting your husband. I can’t tell you enough how difficult it is for a man to tell his wife that he wants to dress in women’s clothes. The fear that our wives won’t react well is a very practical fear, as a number of girls here have had bad experiences, including divorce, as a result of confessing to their wives. Like your husband, I am VERY lucky that my wife accepted my cross dressing right from the start. My hope for you both is that this will only enhance your relationship even more.

Hugs, Jill

Dear Jill,

thank you so much.

I had never heard of crossdressing before. I love my husband. He had to go through very hard times. All I want for him is to feel good. I'm so sad for all the ladies who made bad experiences. For me it's a matter of course to support my husband. I'm so glad that your wife is by your side.

Hugs

Karin

Hallo Karin!
Vielen Dank für Ihr Verständnis und Ihre Kontaktaufnahme zu dieser Community.
Mein Deutsch ist nicht so gut... erst seit 3 ​​Jahren und 2 Besuchen, also bitte verzeihen Sie.
Was Ihr Mann durchmacht, ist das, was wir alle hier durchmachen. Jeder Weg ist einzigartig, daher kann ich Ihnen nur raten, geduldig zu sein und zu versuchen, daraus etwas zu machen, das Ihnen beiden Spaß macht. Versuchen Sie, Spaß damit zu haben.
Ich wünschte, ich könnte persönlich vorbeikommen, um mich zu unterhalten, aber ..... vielleicht eines Tages.
Tschuss!

Hello Steph, thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate your support. It would be absolutely great if we could meet and talk. Until about three weeks ago I had never heard anything about crossdressing. Thanks to all of you it is easier for me to understand what can make a man enjoy wearing women's clothes. My husband for example feels save in women's clothes. For about 17 years he was beaten by his father very often and real hard. His sisters never were. Even if one of his sisters had done something wrong it was my husband who was beaten. He still suffers from what he had to go through. He says that he feels much better now that I know about his secret. I'm very proud of him for his confidence in me and support him in living his passion.

Many hugs and kisses

Karin