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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Like most of you I started wearing female clothes when I was young.  I started with my mothers lingerie and dresses and liked the feel of the material on my skin.  Throughout my life I would occasionally wear lingerie which was usually short lived due to fear of being discovered and guilt of  doing something I wasn't supposed to do.  I grew up in the 60's and 70's and this type of activity was way outside what was considered normal.  Recently my wife and I got into a discussion about me wearing pantyhose.  This conversation broadened to me wearing other lingerie.  As a result of the conversation my need to crossdress came out.  She is supportive of my need and purchased a pair of pantyhose and men's panties for me.  She even gave me some of her lingerie.  I did wear it in front of her, however, she was not ready for that.  She has told me that I can dress when I am home alone and can't take it out of the house.  I am fine with that and it is a relief that I don't have to suppress that part of who I am.  I am going to see a counselor to better understand my feminine side and how it fits into my life.

I am looking forward to meeting new friends and sharing experiences.

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(@ohlivialivin)
Noble Member     Norfolk, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Suzanne

Welcome to CDH, a place where you can share your questions and feelings with likeminded people. I'm glad to hear you and your wife are honest enough to be able to discuss things as well. Enjoy being with us and discovering more about youself.

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(@pattyphose)
Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

You are like many of us wearing and loving female clothes since we were young. Sounds like your "outing" to your wife went pretty well so far.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Yeah, hit a little bump when she saw me dressed in bra, lace thong, garter belt and stockings but we talk about it frequently says she just can't see me dressed right now, so I do it when she isn't home

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Suzanne,

welcome you’ll be happy you’re found this site. Much to see and do and the ladies here are so helpful and truly understanding. Chat, meet friends and tour all the forums, much to read  . I had to surpressed this feelings for many a year but this year I couldn’t hold back. Told my wife after 39 years, the shock, the tears but many a talk? things became acceptable. Now I do dress but  only at home. My Liberties are improving but under my strict wife’s following  Lol!!!  I’m moving along just nicely . In due time and patience support and acceptance may come. To share the feelings of femininity with someone so close to you  is a wonderful experience. The best on your journey  chat anytime
Stephanie 🌹

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Thank you Stephanie - I appreciate your words of encouragement - there is a relief to coming out to my wife but it is still scary - I'm very glad I found this site as I now know that I am not alone in my journey - look forward to chatting with you

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Suzanne,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@sandychase)
Estimable Member     Atlanta, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Suz! Trust me you can’t just decide there’s a stopping point my advice is to go for it and experience it all! Lol Sandy b

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Welcome Suzanne I'm glad your here, I hope I see you around and get to chat with you.

Amanda 😀

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(@sandychase)
Estimable Member     Atlanta, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Sweetie, it’s just Sandy trying to catch up with all my messages. Love to talk! Sandy.

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome Suzanne!

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