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Lady
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(@nalasirder)
Eminent Member     Somewhere, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi everyone! I'm happy to find a crossdressing website that is also SFW and not filled with hook up or overly sexual.

I discovered crossdressing fairly late in life at 36. I wore my wife's undies when she was overseas for a month and I missed her. Since then, I started to love women's clothes and underdress daily and occasionally fully dress.

I've been doing this for going on a year now and I realized a few things. 1) I'm not trans and don't want to pass as a woman in public 2) I love the feeling, fit, colors and styles of women's clothes 3) I love self expression and creativity in colors and how women can show it off with nail polish 4) I like shopping way more than I thought I do!

It's been a fun journey with ups and downs. I couldn't be happier that my wife is understanding and (mostly) supportive of my hobby.

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(@christineth)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Posts: 747

@nalasirder Nala, welcome to CDH.  You are certainly right about the site not being about hook ups and overly sexual - it is more of a support/social group of girls who get together for fun conversations, support and encouragement, but also help with various issues related to crossdressing - from where to buy something to how to take first steps of going out, to emotional issues and relationship issues.

You describe yourself as not wanting to pass as a woman and that you are not transgender.  There are many people who crossdress, and each of us have our own reasons and our own goals and destinations.  No one judges here, each to their own.  Live and let live.  Happy crossdressing to you.  Hope to have a chance to chat sometime.  Hugs Christine.

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Lady
(@nalasirder)
Joined: 3 months ago

Eminent Member     Somewhere, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 13

@christineth thanks! I only mentioned not being trans or not wanting to pass because I was also confused about it for a while! I wondered if I did want to be a woman inside. It was a confusing time that therapy, self reflection, my wife and some websites and podcasts helped with! Thank you!

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2144

@nalasirder 

Hi, Nala, and welcome to CDH, the friendliest, most supportive and, importantly, safe crossdresser community anywhere! We all work to keep it that way 😊.

We are a diverse community, too, some just beginning the journey and others who have, or are currently transitioning. From those  who rarely get the chance to dress or just underdress, to those who dress 24/7. We all love to express our feminine sides though.

You will find others here who are very much like yourself and all of us will gladly offer help if you need anything. Just ask.

Meantime, enjoy exploring your new home from home 😊.

Allie x

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1071

@nalasirder 

Welcome to CDH Nala!

 We're about all things feminine here. 

 Also your among caring, understanding and compassionate  Sister's. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog! 

Fran 🥰 

 

 

 

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5121

@nalasirder 

Hi Nala

I'm so glad that one of the first things you've noticed about our site is how safe it is. A lot of back-stage work goes into keeping it that way 🙂

This a wonderful, warm community and a great place to make friends. One of the many things I like about being here is the freedom I have to simply be myself without fear of judgement.

There's lots to explore. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Duchess
(@gina5)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Washington, United States of America
Posts: 118

@nalasirder I discovered the same thing when I started dressing in front of my wife.  Shopping for clothes and discovering fashion is so much fun! No more boring mens jeans and t-shirts...lol.

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 Lacy
Duchess
(@rholtman96)
Reputable Member     Lincoln city, Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I also found out I love shopping wayyyyyyyyy more than I thought.

Lacy

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Lady
(@nalasirder)
Joined: 3 months ago

Eminent Member     Somewhere, Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 13

@rholtman96 omg it's the best! I got a new VS Pink fleece hoodie yesterday for $15 on sale and it's soooo comfy

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Lady
Topic starter
(@nalasirder)
Eminent Member     Somewhere, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

My favorite part of expressing my feminine side is in care and creativity. I did a full pedicure for my wife this weekend with scrubs, soaks, massage and a nice pink polish that I bought. It felt really awesome to do that for her with items that I had researched and picked out. She was super impressed with my pedicure skills after just practicing on myself for about three months.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome aboard Nala! 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Nala,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy your fleece.  Yes, shopping is fun.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Nala nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so keep looking around and reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Nala as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. So when you feel up to it please return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. A big congrats girl on having a supportive wife it makes our girly life so much easier to manage .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Nala!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

CD is a journey so just enjoy the journey as much as you can. 🙂

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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