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(@caris)
Active Member     Washington, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

I just want to say hi and thank you all for your candid and insightful conversations. You all have been so helpful, as the wife of a CD. I recently found out about my husband, very unexpectedly after decades together. I had no clue. He told me about this site, and I have been able to join and listen and learn about this new reality for me and my family. It just ultimately helps me know him better, and because the secrets are gone, I feel like we have a new lease on our marriage and relationship. So… Thank You for being real, and sharing. 🌹

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1839

@caris Welcome to CDH, I'm glad to hear you've found the site useful

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1141

@caris 

Welcome to CDH Caris!

 We're here to assist you and your CD SO in any way we can. 

 There's tons of stories and info on this site. We welcome our cis sister's and welcome their input. 

We all love to play in the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@caris 

Caris, I applaud your openness and curiosity 👏.

I'm so glad that you've come to meet us, you've seen what we're like, and we've been able to help.

Imagine finding this community after more than fifty years of feeling alone, "wrong" and far too much self-loathing.

Revelation seems woefully inadequate to describe what I felt the first time I replied to a forum topic or began to chat to others just like me. I have never been so happy or at peace. 

Partners like you are rare, Caris, but here we have real community and, nice dresses aside, (but not for long), we can express that feminine side of ourselves. 

We're glad to have you here 😊.

Allie x

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@caris Each time a SO accepts a CD/TG an angel gets its wings. Pray Angel   Seriously its that special. !! welcome !! Cheers RC

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

Welcome to CDH, Chris!

It's wonderful that you have accepted your spouse's desire to crossdress. We are not all the same, so please treat her as the individual that she is. Get to know her, as you may have just gained a new friend. 

If you want the perspectives of other wives, too, there is a private sub-forum just for you.

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(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 87

@caris wow, you accually came to cdh to learn more and all. Your husband is lucky with you! ❤️

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@caris 

Hi Caris

Thank you for such a lovely message 🙂

I know that you're already in contact with Laura @bellaz76, but if there's ever anything that I or anyone else on the CDH team can do to help you please let us know.

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 4 months ago

Prominent Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 363

@caris a lovely message and I am so so happy that you are gaining what I have recently from this site, it has saved my marriage . I also only recently found out myself and as you I had zero idea and it was a massive shock ! So can absolutely relate to what you are saying . I very much hope that we get to chat a lot more moving forward , pls don't hesitate to shout if you would like anything ❤️😍🥰

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@caris Welcome Caris!  Allies like you are an important part of the family here at CDH and I'm happy that you have found insights here.  Please share your experiences so others in your situation can learn from you

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 851

@caris   As you see we are all a supportive and understanding sisterhood here. Many of us have been thru exactly where you two are at.  You , and your best friend, can send us questions and concerns anytime on private mail also.   Remember , he loves you above all else!!!

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome to CDH nice to meet you so wonderful to see you joined use hopefully you see there’s more to it then one mind thinks here on CDH is safe and accepting regardless of who you are truly hope this site showed that not all CDing is bad that there’s a lot of good in it hopefully you are seeing and finding a peace of mind about your SO TC for know 

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Nice to have you here Caris. You will find the ladies here on CDH to be friendly and helpful so don't be hesitant to ask for advice.  

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

A nice welcome to you Caris. It is always nice to know that there are accepting partners prepared to embrace and share the joy with partners. There is a separate group here for wives and partners in the Groups section if you wish to take a look. However where ever you want to be you'll find plenty of support and advice.

 

Thank you for joining.

 

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Guest
(@Anonymous 99388)
Estimable Member
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH glad to see you have a new lease on life.

Alexis 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Caris to the site.

Alice

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Caris -

Welcome to CDH. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Caris so wonderful to meet you and happy you took that leap of faith to learn more about your Husband/girlfriend that lives with you .. As a lot of girls here have the same wonderful partner here myself included many don't have the understanding of there spouse so we have a wonderful place in out hearts for you so thanks .. As my wife says its just clothes then she laughs and adds shoes and lingerie then jewelry a few wigs oh gosh and the makeup ha ha .. Then she says I'm pretty and that makes is all worth while again nice to meet you and so happy you joined us girls here please say hello and keep us posted on your girlfriends progress..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Caris!

Thank you for a lovely message and welcome to CDH.

I hope being part of CDH can help you.

Again, welcome to CDH.

Catherine

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(@jessicacynthia)
Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Hello Caris,

Welcome to CDH.

Jessica

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi   Chris , Welcome to CDH , Marry Christmas & Happy Holidays to you & your friends & family ..  

And all the encouraging and supportive, especially for your SO , I'm so glad to see you so supportive your  self .. 

Anytime you like to Chat 

Stephanie👠👠

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