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Hi everyone! I'm Melissa and wife of new member Stefanie E! We've been married for 20 years and I fully support his need to crossdress. I've known about his crossdressing for many years but he still dressed in secret, I'm not sure if I thought he did it in secret and ignored it, or that he "phased out of it." About a month ago we had a sit down talk about our needs and he just blurted it all out, he needed to dress like a woman! So I might have thought he had phased out of it, but during this talk I realized he hadn't, it's a part of who he is as a person and the man I love. I love him, so I support him in whatever he needs to do to feel good about himself, that's what matters!!
Anyway, I'm glad to be here on this journey with him and look forward to interacting with everyone!
@melsevets Wishing you both all the best. The truth sets us free It may cement a relationship or break one up. You and your husband are the fortunate ones who stay together. I have never had a mate thinking most women would fine my crossdressing unacceptable as well as some other issues I won't cover here. A lifetime alone is not a happy circumstance. So glad for you guys!!!
@marsha68 Thank you for the warm welcome and I'm excited to be part of this community!
@melsevets love you and love this. Just shows life can be great with love and honest communication 😉🥰 welcome to CDH and also welcome to the wives crew. I really am hoping with wives like you we can encourage others to join, gain the support they need and also hopefully give strength and hope to those who have yet to disclose their true self to their wives. 🥰❤️🙏 huge hugs xx
@bellaz76 I'm here for it! Anything I can do to help wives/SOs feel better about, or understand, their partner crossdressing. Thank you for such a kind and warm welcome to this community!
Welcome to CDH, Melissa!
We're glad to have you. Not many of us have a wonderful spouse or SO to support them. We highly commend you for this honest relationship. Recognizing one's trueself is a test of love and patience.
We are here to support and assist you in any way we can!
Welcome to our Pink Fog!
Fran 🥰
@gafran Thank you for the warm welcome! I am excited to be here and learn more, and contribute a wife's point of view! 😀
Its great to have you, and your point of view! It will become most helpful to so many of us girls! 🥰
Hi, Melissa, welcome to the family 😊.
Seriously, that's what it's like here, loving, caring, understanding and supportive. You'll fit right in.
It's always great to see when one of our members has the support of their wife or SO. Having known both sides, the hiding and the open acceptance, I know the world of difference it makes.
Like I've said to other wives joining us, you now have a place here to call your own, and you can share with others in the same situation. And, of course, your perspective is always welcome in the wider forums too, so please feel free to join in whenever you want.
Allie x
@alexina Thank you for the warm welcome! This is a great community and I'm so glad you all have this place to truly be yourselves!
Hi Melissa
Welcome to CDH - and thank you for that lovely introduction 🙂
I'm glad you've made contact with Laura. Our 'Significant Other' membership is really starting to build. Providing a safe and secure platform for wives and partners is an essential part of what we do here.
Have fun exploring the site, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.
Hugs
Ellie x
@ellyd22 Thank you for the warm welcome!! This is a great space and I cannot wait to get to know everyone better and help in any way I can!
@melsevets Welcome to CDH, Melissa!
A lot of members would love to hear your perspective on CD things.
@harriette That's so nice!! I'm here to give any perspective I can! Thank you for the welcome!
@melsevets welcome to CDH Melissa, as Allie, I have also seen both sides of hiding and acceptance. My wife supports me 100% which is amazing and made us stronger for it. Wishing you and (have you chosen a name yet) all the best for the future. Please ask anything of us. Katie 💋
@katiep I'm so happy that your wife supports you as well!! As I'm typing this right now, Stefanie is working on her makeup technique, we got her a new foundation at Sephora last night.
Hi Melissa and welcome to CDH. I’m so glad you love and support your SO Stephanie. I don’t know if CDs are born or made but the urge never goes away.
@kerrismith Thank you for the welcome! It's seems so true that the urge never goes away, so it might be a "born this way" thing!
Hi Melissa,
Welcome to CDH. Your spouse has a keeper as you love and support his needs/hobby.
Alice
Hi there Melissa!! Welcome! Love how you support your husband !!
Welcome, wife 🙂
Hiya Mrs Melissa so nice to welcome you here as a wife of a new girl here hiya Stefanie from the same name diff spelling ha ha .. You are a treasure to hold thank you for joining us here as many ladies here have wonderful supportive wife's here myself included .. As your here to help and support your girlfriend/husband as I see you have met Mrs New also a wonderful lady to help you gals to learn a few things about our girly life with the support of you and my wife amongst all the other ladies here from out Support grout we thank you so much for joining us here please say hello sometime ..
Stephanie Bass
@fishingr8 Thank you so much for the warm welcome!! I am excited to be part of this community! Yay to your wife as well for being supportive of you!
You are very welcome Melissa and thanks for the reply about wife she is so much a bonus to my girly heart .. So happy you joined us have fun girlfriend..
Stephanie
Hi Melissa,
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
A supportive wife of a crossdresser is a rare thing, so you SO is lucky to have you, and it is nice to know supportive wives do exist! Good for you both!
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
