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Hello I am a SO of a CD and I am looking for advice..and support on accepting my husbands CD. I love him very much and I am willing to do anything to make him feel and know that I love him. I want this to work but I do admit that sometimes I have mixed feelings about his CD. I am just looking for others that are walking down the same road. Or people that have ideas on how to handle this. You would think that spending almost 20yrs with a f-m TG I would be prepared and perhaps able to deal with this with no problems. Nope.. Totally different.
Raynette welcome it is a site I hope helps you seek the answers you are looking for. We do have a special place just for you ladies to where you will be able to get many of the answers and most of all be able to talk to other significant others. Go to home page, look over to (so much to do ) then scroll down to ( discussing cross-dressing in the forms) there you will see a forum (Wives and Significant Others ONLY! !! ) there is a procedure in actually joining the site , it is quite simple just follow the instructions. This site is just for you and you only, us crossdresser are " not "allowed to be in there it's only there for you lovely ladies to talk to other significant others about the problems you are experiencing and I hope this helps you tremendously. As for me and of course your husband I cannot give you a answer why . For each it's a different reason but in whole it's a personal experience of confusion and a withdrawal in male responsibility. We do experience pressures of everyday life and for me I need that escape from who I am and to be that someone with understanding and a more gentle demeaner in thought and in feelings . Just being here I know you have that compassion to try to understand and that's all we can really ask for. And please understand we are very vulnerable and very much confused.we too are trying to find answers. My wife has followed these paths and has understood some what of what's going on. And she is accepting me with caution and with our talks she had set guidelines and between ourselves have agreed to take it slowly and not to drive ahead until we're both comfortable. It's working out and most of all I have insured her that I'm still the man she married and will always be there when she needs me. She is my lead and I follow in every way possible. I hope this helps and if you need and help or questions answered please be free to pm me. As one of the ambassadors here I would love to help. The best to you and your husband who I must say is a very lucky man to have a wife willing to understand. . Hope your journey is fulfilling. Stephanie 🌹
