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Wow. I can't believe it's been almost a year since I've been here! It's good to be back.
As some of you know, I've been on and off of CDH for the past three years. Almost two years ago, I started a new job which took up so much of my time that I just didn't have any time to dress or come online. While I still love the job (it truly is my "dream job"), the lack of balance resulted in Elise being shoved back in the closet, which in turn has resulted in weight gain, stress, anxiety and depression. This simply isn't sustainable, so I am resolved to set aside time for Elise and to become more active on CDH again.
I look forward to reconnecting with some old friends and making some new ones.
Hugs,
Elise.
Hi Elise
Your profile is soo familiar!!
There is deep issues there and I just have to say the obvious that I think we can all relate!!
Hugs Roxie.
Elise welcome back sweetie..continue getting back with us and look up your friends and make new friendships. Happy your feeling better..
Hugs..
Stephanie 🌷
Hi Elise,
Welcome back!
- Robyn
Thanks Stephanie:
It's good to be "home."
Hugs,
Elise
Absolutely echo that! She can not be denied and I try to do whatever I can to nurture Nikki in whatever way I can or she finds a way to be heard and sometimes it's LOUD AND CLEAR.
Welcome back, sister! 😉
Hi Elise! You sure hit on something I have been battling foe a lifetime with stress, anxiety and depression. Then recently learning suppressing all of the femme side of myself has really contributed to my misery. By coming out to my wife 2 years ago did help and she is accepting but very cautious. I need now to somehow get her to see that I am gender fluid.
Yeah, Elise doesn't like being denied! Lol. Planning a short vacation where I can spend 3 or 4 days en femme, with no kids, work, nosy neighbors, etc. Both Elise and my male persona need the break.
A little self care is in order.
Hugs,
Elise
It seems to be a common theme among us gurls. We were so indoctrinated with shame and guilt for feeling feminine. Thank God that is starting to change.
Thanks Robyn!
Hi Elise,
Welcome back to CDH.
Alice
Thanks sweetie. It's good to be back.
Hi Elise welcome back to CDH know the light always on
Hugs
Donna
Thanks sweetie.
Now I'm going to hear Tom Bodett's voice in my head all night saying "we'll leave the light on for ya." Lol
I can totally relate I'm in a similar situation myself. If I don't acknowledge the feminine side of me I become miserable. Gotta let the girl out from time to time!
