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Hi just joined. I am 60 and been crossdressing since a teenager. I have gone through the cycle of collecting things the throwing them away, purging . Guilt and self loathing for awhile until the cycle would repeat every few years. But no longer!! My wife is unaware I have had this epiphany. So I have a growing hidden stash and dress when I can en femme. I am tentatively reaching out to discover a supportive community.
You've found it here. Also, there are quite a few of us here from the UK so you won't feel so far from home.
Yes I feel strangely at home already
I am sure you will feel at home here Carrie. No matter when you have the epiphany the joy that can follow is worth the wait.
Welcome Carrie-Anne. As Becca says there are plenty of UK girls here. And plenty of more mature ladies too. I think the need to dress girly intensifies with age and we maybe have more disposable income as we age. There's also the feeling of if not now then when?
This is such a welcoming, supportive and above all safe site. Look around, read the forums and articles, ask questions, the girls will all jump in with help. If you fancy it, flesh out your profile a bit and let us know a little more about you.
I am one of the more mature girls, wife doesn't know. If it helps my experience of being out dressed amounts to walking around my patio late at night in 3 inch heels.
Hugs, Chrissie xx.
I know what you mean by ,if not now when. I walked across and arround a car park in a pair of black patent Mary Jane s with 1 inch block heel in my otherwise normal cloathes. Silly but fun.
Welcome aboard Carrie-Anne 🙂 There seems to be a growing band of us UK girls, which can only be a good thing!
Hi Carrie-Anne,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser too I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on, I'm still in the closet to my wife and family, I think all the girls on here have been through the same sort of thing as you, feeling guilty and ashamed, purging and then starting dressing again, and going through it all again,
I'm a UK girl too I'm down in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
Hi Carrie-Anne,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Carrie-Anne nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So girl when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Carrie-Anne as she travels down her own girly place in life .. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Just please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Welcome to the group , from a Yorkshire girl
Welcome from Manchester. Hope you enjoy.
Hi Carrie-Anne,
I am a bit younger than you but have a very similar experience when it comes to accepting myself.
I thought that I had my epiphany a year or so ago but somehow ended up going even further the other way.
this time I'm taking it slower and trying to meet others to chat to share experiences in the hope I can improve my relationship with dressing.
would love to chat if you wanted to let me know.
Yasmin x
Hi and welcome from darn sarth (said with a London accent) of the country, this is a great place to share experiences and discover that you're not the only one.
Yvette
Welcome to the group Carrie-Anne!