Hello and questions…..

I'm pretty new here too, and excited to see answers to this!

You may find the answers in the forums. There are no boundaries to the quuetions you can ask except those in the terms you signed up for. So ask away and welcome to this little bit of Heaven...

Fire away with the questions we will all try to answer if we can.
hugs and kisses Ginny

Welcome in and ask away - I doubt you'll hit any boundary. There's plenty of help and advice on hand.

Connie

xxx

Hi Lexi,

Welcome to CDH!

- Robyn

Welcome Lexi !

Feel free to ask away , the girls here will happily answer your questions.

Love Svlvia

Hi Lexi,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

Lexi welcome. It’s wonderful to have you here with us in this wonderful community . Enjoy browsing through many of our well written forums. Ask your questions as there is many here to meet , talk with and for some develop wonderful friendships. A caring place I hope you enjoy being part of. Very nice meeting you

Stephanie 🌹

Welcome Lexi,
Ask away, there are many helpful girls here in varying degrees from occasional dressers to trans gender.
Hugs,
Lara

Welcome Lexi,

This place is great. There is so much information to explore but only so much time. Please know you are one of the girls here. WE all understand each other! Stay soft and silky!

Hope

Thank you all so much for the warm welcome!

I’ve been experimenting with womens clothes ever since I was young (trying on mums skirt etc, 😣😂) and it has been on and off for years, sometimes the urge will last a few weeks and then disappear others a day or two. The urges seem to come at times of stress or change?

I don’t really find this a problem. I’m not hurting anyone after all and it’s done in the comfort of my own home when my family are out which is how I feel comfortable doing it. Where my issue lies is when I get the urges, I get the urge to use toys on myself. It becomes a sexual thing. I find myself fantasising about being with another trans person with a toy in me and sort of loose all control. I do enjoy it.

However, this in turn afterwards makes me feel ashamed of myself and leaves me feeling a bit confused and knocks my confidence when making love to my wife. It’s almost like I can’t separate the two aspects in my brain and understand that I can enjoy both. It’s almost like my brain wants me to pick one way of life and I don’t really want to…..

Does anyone else feel like this or go through a similar thought process? Is it a normal train of thought!?

xx

Lexi all those questions you have - and more- have going through the heads of those on this site.   To your questions I have found the urges go in waves and with each one I seem to try something new or push my boundaries a little more.  Along the way I have learned some thing s that don’t work for me but many more things that were “on the other side of that line in the sand” are now on my side of the sand - a couple of which you touched on.   (Or maybe that line just took a detour?). All of it has made me evolve and grow while knowing there is much more to be had.   I look forward to that continued evolution.  You are in a welcoming place here.  So ask away.

Hi Lexi and welcome.

I don't have answers for you but you seem like most all of us with having conflict at times. Ask any questions you like but it is you who will have to settle things in your mind as best as you can. Everyone is a bit different. Unfortunately conflict comes with the territory. Its not easy being who we are.

Hi Lexi,

Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore to your heart’s content.

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Terri Anne, Ambassador