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Hello my name is David also Rebecca
Hi - and welcome to CDH 🙂
This is a very warm and supportive community, and a great place to make friends.
By the way, almost everyone here uses their femme name.
If you want to change your site name to 'Rebecca' it's really easy. All you do is:
1). Go to your profile page (click below)
Profile – David Deeley – Crossdresser Heaven
2). You'll see various options: View, Edit, Change Profile Photo, Change Cover Image. Select 'Edit'.
3). You can now change anything you want to about your profile except for your user name (that can't be changed now that it's set).
4). When you've finished editing, scroll down and click on 'Update'
And that's it!
Meanwhile, there's plenty of other stuff to explore. Have fun poking around, and if you need help with anything just shout 🙂
Ellie x
@lovefemme welcome Rebecca to the most friendly and helpful forum imaginable x
Hi and welcome to CDH.
There is quite a crowd of us UK members here now, but everyone here is very friendly and supportive wherever we’re from.
As Ellie points out, most of us do refer to ourselves with femme names, but obviously it’s up to you. It took me quite a while to get used to referring to myself as Lucy, but nowadays
it’s second nature.
There’s lots to see here, so have a good look around and don’t be afraid to ask anything you may want to know
Lucy
Hi Rebecca,
If you look at Ellie’s reply on this thread it contains all the info you need.
Any issues just shout up, we’re here to help
My reply above has full instructions for changing your name 🙂
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/507936/
If you have trouble, then Lucy or I can help you out ... but it's a pretty straightforward process 🙂
Ellie x
@lovefemme Hi Rebecca, welcome to CDH. You're going to love it here, all the girls are so kind and caring, it is the best site on the internet for Crossdressers and I can tell you in the past 2 1/2 years CDH has been a big part of changing my life from a lonely CD with no one to talk with to being a member in 3 Trans social groups as well as some very close friend here that have been a huge help in my journey. Enjoy your stay.
Trish 💖
@trish1980 thanks you Trish i look forward very much to going to clubs etc with like minded girls! However finding these functions has been a little hard for me xx
Hi Rebecca, welcome to CDH.
Your local pub sounds great!
As the others have said, we're a genuinely inclusive and friendly community here, so feel free to pitch in anytime with questions, comments or requests for advice on all things crossdressing.
I see you worked out how to change your name to Lovefemme. It's entirely up to you of course, but may I suggest you go by Rebecca instead? Having a regular femme name at the top of your posts makes it much easier for others to address you in a relatable way.
Whichever, the main thing is you're here! So please do make the most of what the site has to offer. Explore, read, join in and have fun!
Fantastic! And it's lovely to greet another UK girl. I'm way up north in Tyne & Wear.
Take care.
x
@jacquelinelarkspur wow that IS way up lol I am way down in the toe of the boot that is Cornwall x
Hi, Rebecca, welcome to the family 😊
This is a wonderful place, I've been a member for only a couple of months and it's great to be able to share with others after 50-odd years of keeping the secret.
Enjoy the freedom to be yourself!
Allie
@alexina wow! Isnt it wonderful to finally be free to do this. Im 62 so i do get envious when i see young guys putting on make up and they look beautiful whereas i am weather worn lololol xx
Ha ha! But we're all beautiful on the inside, Rebecca. Well, not literally of course!
Hi Rebecca! Welcome to CDH! You will find this to be a warm, supportive community! Browse and read and talk and learn! I have learned the more you reach out, the more you will reach in! I hope you enjoy it as much as I have!
Sheryl
@sheryl321 hiya Sheryl! Thankyou for your message i look forward to discovering all i can here
From one Rebecca to another and one Cornwall resident to another I say welcome to this very inclusive site.
You might want to consider changing your display name though unless you want to be called David here (which I doubt). I haven't seen anyone use a male name as far as I can remember.
Becca
@rebeccabaxter Hi Rebecca and thank you for the heads up!
i am still lacking in the facial confidence thing which i would love to master! Make up etc
I am lucky enough to be able to dress up im my local pub are you?
xx
Don't drink anymore so have little use for pubs, I do go out shopping though.
@rebeccabaxter well in my village there are no events for cd only the pub and the co op lolol I would love to travel somewhere where i can just walk about with another ‘Girl’ friend in the city etc xx
Hi Rebecca from another UK girl, and welcome to the warmest, friendliest sisterhood you'll ever encounter. Since nervously joining at the New Year, these lovely ladies have helped and supported me to gain the confidence to go out in public - to the point where I have now truly discovered my inner woman, as well as a whole load of wonderful friends 🙂
Hugs,
Fiona xxx
@finallyfiona Hi Fiona and thank you! I too am hoping to find more of me and im sure this is the site for that xxx
Hi Rebecca and welcome!
Hey lady’s I’m Sarah I’m new here. I’ve been dressing for years new i’m privet and would like to take it to the next level i would love some close girlfriend to dress with and teach me all there secrets. I’m very in the closet and have never told anyone my secret.
@sarahapple35 hi Sarah! You are in completely the right place to find yourself xx
Hi Rebecca.
Welcome to CDH. It is the best place.
Gisela
Hi Rebecca nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Rebecca as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hi Rebecca,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Rebecca,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family,
I'm a UK girl too I'm up in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, if it's help and advice you need the girls will help you anyway they can X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
@rozalyne Yes me too! Older sisters were great lolol I am looking and have some leads thank you. I will write more on my profile but atm i have just become single and that was a bit of a clout but i am so very happy to be here amongst friends! Real people xx
Your welcome Rebecca,
I used to wear my sister's clothes and underwear because they were more up to date than my mother's, she used to wear mini skirt's and flowery lingerie, my mother used to wear old fashioned underwear and clothes,
Thanks for having me for a friend too, I'm looking forward to chatting with you again soon X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
@rozalyne ah yes, sisters wore the latest and sometimes daring underwear, but im an old fashioned girl and Mums Vanity fair knickers and wide suspended belts and full fashioned seams were my faves , Van Raalt nighties oh boy I was literally away with the faries lolol x
off out tonight to the golden lion in my red plaid mini and awesome soft thigh boots so i am stoked!! Pity the fun stops at 11 rehhhhh!! Ha ha xx
@lovefemme there's nothing wrong with the fairies Rebecca,
I've yet to have the pleasure of going to the pub En Femme it must be lovely to go out all dressed up,
I have one older sister and two younger sisters so it was no good wearing my younger sisters clothes, they didn't wear bra's until i left home, and i was a bit to big to fit in any of their dresses,
Have a good night out, catch up with you soon X
Hugs Rozalyn X
@rozalyne Hiya Rozalyn x
Thank you for your message! It was a great night! Dyu know Roz I went En Femme initially because my friend said yes lets do it just for a laugh ( which of course, to me, it was fulfilling a 50 year dream but i went along with the ‘just for a laugh ‘ ruse!
Then i decided, as i had done it once , that i was going to do it again and that started the ball rolling! I am a gentle soul and can chat with anyone and i found myself being ‘accepted’ as Rebecca by both the bar staff AND the punters and now every Friday i wear my most beautiful outfits . I am very very lucky to have had this opportunity to dress without being chastised or made to feel that i was some kind of outcast or reject. I saw that actually Roz, people arent that bothered by it and i get couples all the time who wanna buy me a drink and talk to me so i would say, just do it!! Like jumping from that high diving board, once youve done it angel, you have passed the hard part, just continue and people will get used to seeing you and you can then be as free amd as open as you want to be! Take a trip to Cornwall chick, you can come out on a friday with me xx Be brave girl, it will pay dividends!
Thanks very much Rebecca, i might take you up on the invitation one day and come down and visit you then you can take me out with you, I would need a new outfit to go out in, I did go out a few weeks ago for a drive in my car all dressed up and I'm sure one of my neighbours saw me come home and nothing has been said, that was so nice getting out, the only thing is i didn't have any makeup on, I would love to have a professional makeover and photo shoot done and look like a woman on the outside to match the woman i feel on the inside, if you know what i mean,
Catch up with you soon X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
@rozalyne Yes Rozalyne ! I know exactly what you mean and I also would so love to have the whole make over and photo thing (make up is the thing i am rubbish at so I dont try, which is always a bit sad for me as , like you said Roz , I would love to complete my look! Thing is , I come from the cheap seats and on universal credit you barely even get enough money to last the month, even the lottery keeps churning out the wrong numbers ahahaha.
maybe one day lol. Yes defo come down and we can step out Xx
I know what you mean Rebecca I've been there and got the T-shirt, I'm retired now and on my pension it's not a lot but i don't have to budget to go to work, I used to travel 40 miles a day to work and that's a lot of money for petrol, here's hoping for the lottery you never know what the future brings, maybe you should try a lucky dip i think that's what i might try, I've put the same numbers on for years with no luck i always seem to get 2 or 3 numbers up and win a few quid just to keep me interested, I'll probably get a jackpot when I'm on my deathbed, lol, I hope I'm not being to somber, anyway I'll catch up with you later X
Hugs Roz X 🤗
Hi Rebecca!
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive as you can see from the many responses to your introduction!
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
