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I've been discovering myself since a teenager (around 32 years ago). About 25 years ago I disclosed my masculinity questioning to my wife and we both embraced it for a bit. We both dressed (her doing my makeup and dress) and went out a few times. But, I think the "shame" and lack of dysphoria knowledge prevented me moving forward. Throughout my marriage sex has been very sparse and my wife explained that she thought there was someone else or that it was her. I finally came out to her recently and I am not turning back. I have been more passionate with her than ever and we are like a couple of newlyweds again. She is very sweet and encouraging about it...and even went shopping for "Nicole's" new wardrobe and makeup. She is definitely my rock through this while I move through the "coming out" phase of my transition. I'm just worried that the reality is going to strike her and changer her outlook about it. For now, I am focused to prove this will only strengthen our relationship while I continue to grow into my "real" self.
Hi Nikki,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Nikki, I'm Greta
Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family.
It's a pleasure to meet you here.
You are in a place where it is really difficult to feel alone and abandoned, you will be able to find all the "sisterhood" you need.
Here you can exchange good opinions and information and find support to move forward in your female adventure.
Here you can have fun participating in forums, polls and questionnaires.
Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm hug.
I'm Greta, I'm a 57 year old CD/TG person who is living with extreme happiness the choice to undergo hormone replacement therapy; my life has been complicated for too long by having to hide my gender identity... not that it's easier now, but at least I've happily taken possession of my way of being.
When I'm alone at home or at work or I know I don't have LGBTQ+phobic guests, I'm Greta and I live my femininity freely, but if I'm elsewhere in places where I know I'm surrounded by dull and ignorant people I'm dressed in unisex clothes but of course I'm wearing my women's underwear.
XOXO from Italy
Greta
Hey Nikki
It is so wonderful that you've come out to your wife and that she has accepted the female side of you so fully. It's natural to worry about whether this will last - I think that as crossdressers we are almost pre-programmed to stress constantly about these things - but everything that you've said sounds intensely positive, especially as you're so focused on your wife's needs as well as your own. I'm so happy for you 🙂
I'm a lifelong crossdresser who came out to my Mother and one of my sisters as recently as August this year. Both of those revelations had very positive outcomes.
Oh, and I almost forgot to say ... welcome to CDH!
Hugs
Ellie x
Thank you all so much for the warm welcoming. This is a very confusing time for me, indeed. On one hand I am extremely excited for a chance at a true life and on the other scared of the consequential unknown. I'm sure that's natural, as well. I am very happy to have found a place to discuss this with.
Nikki - you'll find that this is a very welcoming place, and that the girls on here are quite wonderful when it comes to offering advice and support.
What you're experiencing sounds completely natural. That mix of excitement, fear and apprehension is only too familiar to me 🙂
There are lots of us here who are in exactly the same boat as you. You're not alone, and you can talk to us whenever you need to.
Hugs
Ellie x
Hi Nicole having computer problems trying to hook up new one hope to see you tonight ..
Stephanie
Nikki welcome to CDH Nikki. You will love the girls on this site. They are all so supportive and helpful. Its a wonderful place to talk to other girls who feel like you do, and it is a safe place to meet and make friendships. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I would love to get to know you better. You are so lucky to have a supportive wife. I would love to have such a supportive wife. I know how much you love expressing your feminine side. It was nice meeting you Nikki.
Have a wonderful day.
Hugs Julie
Welcome, Nikki....count your blessings to have such an accepting and supportive wife who loves YOU...!!! You're also going to love it here, we're "just like your wife"....ENJOY, as you explore what this site has to offer...!!!
Hello Nikki,
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Hi again Nicole really nice to meet you again ha ha .. Well girlfriend with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they follow.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. So girlfriend when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Nicole as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Once more girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Nikki
wonderful having you here with us. With a supportive wife and a love for dressing this is certainly a place you’ll enjoy being part of . The girls here are helpful and friendly with their advice and tips with a heart for understanding about our passion. Develop beautiful friendships ,share each other’s experiences and know you have us to enjoy here. Welcome .
Stephanie
Nikki,
Welcome to CDH!
Quite the introduction and journey you are on.
I wish you all the best on it!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
Hello Nikki welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or levels of closeted dressing or underdressing or public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. For some it means remaining private for some telling a select few ultimately you have to do whats best for your own situation and you ultimately know best. I appreciate you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence in themselves. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!
Hugs April
