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Hello Everyone,
Sorry it has taken me a month to get to put my introduction out here.
I’m kind of new to cross dressing. A couple of years ago I just decided I had to have a dress I saw on Amazon. That opened the shopping flood gates. Then it was on to EnFemme, and the Breastform Store! I love the way I feel in heels, skirts, dresses, and a bra, and forms! It brings such an amazing calming feeling.
My wife, family, and friends do not know about this obsession. I don’t want to risk making any one uncomfortable. I also don’t want to chance being rejected by some dear long-time friends. This could change in the future, but for now I’m happy this way. I love my male life, and this new side of me too. I don’t feel that I need to be dressed full time. I have nothing but love for those who do, or those that are going on to transition. It’s just not right for me, at this time in my life.
This site is just awesome! I just love the support here. Everyone has been so kind, and helpful!
Love & Hugs,
Lara
Welcome to CDH, Lara. It's nice to meet you.
Hey gf
OmgI can so relate to how you explained it. I just told my wife a few weeks ago and she has been nothing but the best partner, soulmate and love of my like. That being we still have a lot to go through to figure out our new normal which is good for both of us. I don’t feel the need to tell others but do want to get out once in a while which will be out of town.
Going to a therapist helped me a lot in understanding myself which in turn helped me in talking with my wife. It’s all about finding the right therapist that you can connect with for sure.
please reach out if you ever want to chat.
hugs
carole
Hello Lara Welcome to CDH..
This is a Safe Place to Be Your True Self... if there's anything I can do to help... or you just would like to talk...Please send Me a Message..
With Much Love Jessica 💕
Lara you and I are in the exact same boat. I have been doing this for about the same amount of time and have also become obsessed. I love the feeling of stockings, heels, silk and satin fabrics, and everything else enfemme. And no one knows about me either. I agree this is the most amazing place. I look forward to batting with you in the future. Welcome to CDH see ya soon Ginny.
Hi Lara,
Welcome to CDH!
It's so nice to meet you.
Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖
welcome and its hard to find your way and you will get there one step at a time
Hi Lara Welcome!! I just joined a few months ago. I am in the closet also but I have been dressing since I was 10 and I am Now 53. I understand about friends and family most of them would dis own me if they found out about Marcy..My wife passed away almost 17 months ago and was thinking of being Marcy full time but I still have family and friends that would not get it..I have made some friends here and feel safe. So enjoy!!
Hat's off to you - sounds like you've really got it together! You go, girl! 😄
Hi Laura, you look great in those heels girl. Great legs.
A "calming feeling".
I could have written that.
Lara, for this is experiencing things that I don't have or feel in my life as a man.
Diane
Hi Lara
I'm with you all the way on the calming feeling - it's wonderful, isn't it?
Welcome in
Connie
xxx
Hi Welcome to CDH.
Hugs Charlotte
Lara This is certainly a special place full of beautiful ladies all enjoying this wonderful world. Get all doll up and enjoy mixing right here. Girls here love to chat and make one feel very comfortable in themselves to enjoy moving with a dream looking forward. As you said I'm not looking to further my journeys but at times do enjoy dressing in my feminine things but also enjoy my male side too. A mix of two worlds as one deals with the every day struggles life can put on us my fem side compliments my softer and easy side and certainly helps in reducing the stress put on us. Happy to have you here and now enjoy all that we are. Welcome...
Stephanie 🌹
Welcome to CDH Lara.
Hugs, Liara
