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Hello Everyone,
I'm sort of new, and older (more mature ??), since I was last here. I was one of those quiet, wallflower types who never shouted 'hello!' loud enough...
HELLO!
I'm here to find friends with common values, to be able to relate on a level that other peeps just don't get, if they aren't anything like who we beautifully are...
I'm married, mostly happily so... fortunately, the little bits of non-marital bliss don't really have much to do with being into this lovely feminine persona I've (or we've) been blessed/cursed with (really light on the 'cursed' part these days). My wife is pretty darn cool and accepting of all kinds of people and their differences. Sometimes I wish there was more 'us-ness' when I'm Catie, but I'm happy to at least have freedom enough to feel that things are mostly in the right place in life.
I dress fairly often, sometimes more, sometimes less, depending on how my 'gender pendulum' is swinging (oh gosh, no nasty puns intended... I think I walk into my own naivety, like a nerd reading a book, walking down the street, kissing a telephone post... ooops, done that too... now outed as a dress wearing nerd! LOL). I'm not passable, let's just get that out of the way, as it seems to be a pretty big deal for some... for me it's more about the energy I feel - sometimes a pair of knickers is all that's needed, sometimes it's all out with a home spa day and fancy clothes, but probably most at home in casual clothes in relax mode...
If anyone out there is looking for a friend, someone who loves to listen, and is big on hugs, by all means get in touch...
Warm regards, to all,
Catie
Hi, Catie, welcome back. And thanks for your comprehensive introduction, a pleasure to read.
I joined just five months ago and it's no exaggeration to say that it's changed my life so much, thanks to the girls here.
50 years I kept my crossdressing a secret, with all the trouble that can cause! It's like a huge weight has been lifted from me to be able to share with like-minded sisters.
I love this community and hope you will too 😊.
Allie
@alexina Thank you Allie! that's so good to hear! and I'm happy for you! big hugs sweetie!
Hi Catie
Since you've been a member here before, there's no need for me to wax lyrical about what a wonderful place this is. You already know that 🙂
So I'll just say ... welcome back!
There may have been a few changes to the way the site is structured since you were last here. You seem to be finding your way around pretty well, but if you need help with anything then don't be afraid to ask.
Ellie x
@tubbydullard Hi and Hugs for you babe! How does one 'text' in here, would love to chat anytime! ❤️
@catex hi ! 👋 I'm just.awake 5:30.a.m.
Got Your reply. 1st coffee of the day, need to decide what to wear today. A tank /house Dress. Or some short.skirt.snd top? Lovely choices either way
This is my chat with you 😊
@tubbydullard You must be on the other side of the world? What did you choose for your outfit?
it’s almost 7pm here, as I type, has been a long day… but now settled into a laid back evening, just wearing the basics, jean skirt and loose tshirt… ready for a cup of tea, my journal, and some music…
Yes, I am in Vietnam 🇻🇳 in.a lovely village like environment where.mtf cross dressing is accepted ! I'm out everyday as Stephanie, and AM LOVING the freedom.
have several cis girlfriends, and a couple of expat guys that chat me up.and accept what femme I'm wearing this day. It a dream come true to be Stephanie openly , daily. Will be in skirts for happy hour at th pub tonight!
Cheers
@tubbydullard oh my! That’s a wonderful life you have… very happy for you, happiness steeped in envy! If ever I travel to your neck of the woods, we’ll have to have a coffee together…
Come, visit me ! Love to have a "sister" to introduce to friends, in your best dress or skirt! 
@catex look fwd. To chatting w/u.
Woke sleeping in satin nightie and silky panties. Showered, matching bra & pany,
blk. And purple flowered midi skirt, black. Long sleeved turtle neck top, soon ready for my appointment @ the doctors office.l
Love openness of dressing Stephanie 95% of the time now.
Drab necessity sometimes.
How are you today? Hugs, xoxo
@tubbydullard not too shabby at this end… life is very busy these last few months… my inner feminine voice has been fairly quiet - summer always seems to do that… but I do love the quietude that comes with shorter days, and colder weather… other than that everything is pretty much status quo…
Best of luck with your appointment,
c
The appointment? As far as Stephanie, blended with every one, especially the nurses, clerks etc.
The doctor could not find anything wrong , but, there is! Which is why i booked a specialist.
So next medical step is undecided. My feme dressing is the pleasure of my day, just feel pretty and want to fit in as a woman. And am doing that well enough.
Weather here Moving into rainy season, but still petty warm/hot, in 80's f
the cool will be welcome soon.
Good night to you.
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Hi Catherine, welcome back to CDH. You already know what a cool site this is, so find your favourite chair, settle in and have fun!
@jacquelinelarkspur Thanks Jacqueline! I will do that... and hope one day we cross paths, maybe for a favourite chair chat? ❤️
Hi Catherine and welcome back.
It sounds as if you’re in a fairly good place with home life, which is always good to hear.
As Ellie has said, the site has probably changed since you were last here, so feel free to ask if you need any help navigating. We’re more than happy to help.
We also love to listen and give out hugs, so you’re definitely back in the right place.
Speaking of hugs, here’s a big one to be going on with….
Lucy
@lucyb112 Thank you Lucy! I love hugs, the bigger the better... I return the deep embrace in kind... thanks for the offer of help! Yes, home life is pretty good, getting better, there are pitfalls to navigate, and nothing is ever certain, but all in all, I'm happy... Hope/wish the same for you, for everyone... ❤️
Love you description of life as Catie ! I dress with mood swings, some days feeling pretty, some days wanting to feel sexy and to be seen ! Often,just a sleeveless house dress going to morning fresh market to buy fruit and vegetables from older ladies on their mats.
You be well.sister
@tubbydullard Life as Catie is fairly mundane, and I love it that way! I love it most when I feel the internal glow from sweetness, kindness, compassion, curiosity, caring, and add a little sass, maybe a dash of mischief… all the things that radiate from femininity, my yin energy… I would add love too, but I’m trying to make it universal across my own little gender spectrum…
Lovely yin message girl !
I resonate with you and the internal glow of kindness, compassion & caring.
Yes sensitivity
Stephanie is feeling & cultivating
Hugs to you.girl
@cdashley Hi Ashley, we are next to neighbors, you are just down the road! Thanks for the welcome, and nice to meet you! Hope all is well down the 401 in your neck of the woods... ❤️
@catex. High! Keep up the spirits, the panties wearing that promotes that "feeling"
We all love.
@tubbydullard that’s pretty much a guarantee! There aren’t many boxers left in my underwear drawer…
I’m wishing you a fantastic afternoon in paradise!
Just received 2 new pair
Sheer lace panties purple and pink ones
Wore to meet a cis girl for coffee in.a lovely above the knee black skirt.
Felt so pretty and confident that I looked adorable
New friend accepted ME in full feminine . Loving it 😍 ❤️
@tubbydullard what a fantastic life you’ve made for yourself! That does sound like paradise… paradise, with freedom as the main foundation stones!
Welcome back Catherine!
Hi Catie,
Welcome back to CDH from another mature member. No need to be shy.
Alice
@aliceunderwire Thanks Alice! I think my wife would remind me of how maturity can mean a couple of things... an old fart (that doesn't smell... feminine toots never smell! 😉), with a young heart... best way to be, trying to corner the market on wisdom and love! (key word 'trying'... and I can hear my wife laughing her ass off, in a loving way...)
Hi Catherine.
Welcome back to CDH.
Forget about how passable you are or not. It is enough that you are carefully presentable. The important thing is how you feel about yourself. What the world says doesn't matter a damn.
Gisela
@firefly Thank you Gisela! wise words indeed, trying to live by them to the best of my abilities... My makeup skills are on par with my kindergarten finger painting skills, LOL, but a lovely work in progress... but I totally agree, how you feel is everything, and I feel pretty darn good these days... ❤️
Hi Catherine nice to see you back home as we always leave the porch light on so you find your way back here and see it really works he he .. Well girlfriend now your here rekindle old friendships and start some new ones as you know we love a good old girly chat so jump back into the swing of things here and just have fun ..
Stephanie Bass
