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Lady
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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi. I'm Judy and I was born, raised and still live in London.

I've been crossdressing since I was 15 years old starting with underwear and, if I got a chance, wearing my sister's clothes.

It was when I went to university that my CD life really took off. I learnt how to apply make up and started going out and about. I still do so when possible, otherwise I'll dress at home when the opportunity comes around.

My CD life is an extremely solitary existence, but gives me a great deal of pleasure. I'm hoping that this site will provide a safe place for me to share my thoughts and experiences and to hear those of others.

I have never taken photographs of myself dressed, but maybe this site might inspire me to do so.

I'm looking forward to being part of what seems to be a very supportive community.

Judy.

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@judevderl 

Hi Judy

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl 🙂

This is indeed a very supportive community, and a safe space in which you can be yourself.

Although I felt completely at home here from my very first day on the site it was a full year before I was confident enough to start posting photos. Now, there's no stopping me!

There's lots to explore here. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Ellie x

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@ellyd22 Thank you, Ellie!

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1142

@judevderl 

 Welcome from across the pond to CDH Judy!

So glad that you have joined us in your feminine journey. You'll find the girls here are compassionate, caring and understanding. 

 We are about all things feminine. 

Here you will find friendships, information and answers to your questions. We will assist you in any way we can.

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

 

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Baroness
(@sienna106)
Joined: 10 months ago

Estimable Member     Manchester, GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Posts: 66

@judevderl - Greetings and welcome from a Manchester girl. It might be coincidence but looking at your name, might you be a fan of the band 'Focus'?

Sienna

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@sienna106 Thank you, Sienna! Actually, I'm not a Focus fan, but I do have Sylvia in my iTunes library!

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Lady
(@wendye47)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Clwyd, United Kingdom
Posts: 79

@judevderl Hi Judy. Welcome from a Welsh girl. This is a very friendly and welcoming place and I feel sure that you will be happy on here.

Wendy x

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@wendye47 Thank you, Wendy!

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1461

@judevderl Welcome Judy, from not too far away from you 🙂  

You'd be amazed at what this wonderful sisterhood might inspire!  The support and encouragement of other girls from all around the world really is a force for good that can change lives for the better.

Looking forward to getting to know you 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@finallyfiona Thank you, Fiona! Likewise!

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 768

@judevderl hi Judy, welcome to Crossdresser Heaven.  I know that I was told when I first came here that I’d make some fantastic friends and be able to share anything here including public photos.  Of course the skeptical me didn’t believe any of it.  I figured I’d be here a few months and get bored.  So here I am over 2 years and everything that I thought wouldn't happen did.  I’ve made lots of friends said things to friends here that I never thought I’d disclose to anyone and of course I love it here.  

I hope you get the same thing out of this site that I have.  Feel free to contact me if you need anything.

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@jennconn Thank you, Jennifer. I have a really good feeling about this site already and I've only been here a few days. Feel I have so much to ask after years of not talking to anyone on the subject of CD. I feel like this is the place to do it All in good time, I guess. Thanks, again. Judy.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@judevderl Welcome to CDH Judy.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

Welcome to CDH,  Judy!

Posted by: @judevderl

I'm hoping that this site will provide a safe place for me to share my thoughts and experiences and to hear those of others.

...

I'm looking forward to being part of what seems to be a very supportive community.

This is what I like the hear from new members. Curiosity, enthusiasm, desire.

I am up for it.

 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2210

@judevderl 

Hi, Judy, you're spot on about sharing safely, there's no better place.

There's a wide membership so there's lots of experience and stories here, lots of them very similar.

I had never spoken to anyone but my wife about my secret and had buried my feminine side deep. Then I found this amazing community and made real friends here. With their encouragement and support, I spent a couple of days en femme, in public just a couple of months ago.

You've got the same encouragement and support now, so don't hesitate to ask if you need anything.

Welcome to the family 😊.

Allie x

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1733

@judevderl Hey Judy, welcome to CDH from another London girl. There's loads of us in the UK! Yes, crossdressing can be a solitary existence, and it's tough isn't it? The ladies here are at every point on the crossdressing spectrum and many, including me, will resonate with your situation. Nevertheless if you join in and participate here you will be amazed by the support, acceptance and compassion offered and that will help you feel so much better. It's great to be part of this wonderful sisterhood. It really can change lives!

It's certainly fun to take pics of ourselves all dressed up. A lot of the girls enjoy posting theirs here, and I tend to check the photos section regularly. There are some beautiful girls here. Of course there's absolutely no pressure to do so. I hope you'll love it here as much as I do. 

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@chrisfp99 Thank you, Chrissie!

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Duchess
(@ozinsky)
Eminent Member     Akron, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome Judy

This is a great place to find like minded girls and to not feel alone in your journey.

A lot of us started out just as you did. Also, we live a solitary exsistance but are able to live more open here.

I also had never taken pictures of Anastasia before, but now have over 800 on my phone.

Again I welcome you and hope to hear from you in the chat room and maybe see a picture or two when you are ready.

Anastasia Irish

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@ozinsky Thank you, Anastasia!

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

@judevderl Welcome, Judy! I hope you find what you're looking for and get out of CDH as much as I have! 🙂

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@melodeescarlet Thank you, Melodee!

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Judy from another UK member I am based up North in Lancashire. Hugs Lizzy

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Judy, 

Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, I'm a UK girl too I'm up in Shropshire, I've been dressing most of my life since I was about 8 or 9 years old when I tried my older sisters lingerie on, I'm still in the closet too, I've just had my very first makeover and photo shoot it was truly amazing, I'm hoping to have another makeover some time in the new year, 

Hugs Roz X 

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to the group!

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Judy 

Welcome to CDH.

A friendly, understanding and supportive community. 

Gisela 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Well Hi Judy so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts maybe a few profiles thrown in for fun.. As many ladies here tell there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you become comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Judy as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon.. You know I'm just across the pond from you well like a row boat ride ha ha .. Here in Montana USA have fun girlfriend and say hello sometime ..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Judy,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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Lady
Topic starter
(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Thank you all for the lovely warm welcome. I truly hope to get to know you all better as I spend more time here.

Is it just me or does time fly past so quickly when you're here? I'm late leaving for work already. I'll blame the tube!

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2210

@judevderl 

Not just you, Judy it's a virtuous circle, the more time you spend here, the more you'll want to 😂.

It can take me anything from 30 minutes to an hour just to write a private message! However, what better way (or place) to spend the time?

Allie x

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1733

@judevderl No Judy, we're all guilty. You just tend to go down so many rabbit holes. Ooh, let's read her profile. Has she got any pics? Oh that's an interesting topic. Hey, there are articles too? Let's take a quick peek. It's very addictive. And I love it xx.

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Judy -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@cdsue Thank you, Suzanne!

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(@jessicacynthia)
Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Hello Judy,
Welcome to CDH.
Jessica

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@jessicacynthia Thank you, Jessica!

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Judy to CDH nice to meet you you find here such a lovely community and so much support you don’t have to be shy here hope to see you around the site and hear your adventures TC 

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 97

@erinb Thank you, Erin!

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Judy!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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