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(@yasmin1628)
Active Member     Minooka, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

My femme name is Yasmin! Ive been dressing for about three months now but havebeen curious aboutit fir years. I love it! I live close to chicago and i dress any chance i get...im married but unfortunatly my wife does NOT approve of this lifestyle...she says tht it gives off homosexual tendencies...i am infact bisexual but ive never had an experince with a man...it has always been with women...and ive noticed that i only feel attraction towards men when im dressed...so maybe my wife is right? Idk....she know i dress in secret but i cant get her to get passedit enough for us to go out together and then come home to spice things up....im sure she'll come around itll just take some serious time

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5884

@yasmin1628 

Hi Yasmin

Welcome to CDH - the internet's best CD/TG support group 🙂

This is great place to make friends, seek advice, chat or just sit back and enjoy everything that's going on. It's a safe haven, very different from all those other sites which are plagued by admirers and sex chat. Here you can just be yourself, in a non-judgemental environment.

There's lots to explore. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2709

@yasmin1628 

Hi, Yasmin, welcome to CDH. 

This is a unique community, overwhelmingly positive and caring, understanding and supportive. Our members range from occasional under-dressers to some sisters who have transitioned, everyone finds their own comfortable place.

With such a diverse group, there's a lot of knowledge here, so don't hesitate to ask if there's anything you need.

Knowing you dress in secret and coming to accept your dressing can be very different and difficult for wives and significant others (SO's). Some take time to get their heads round it, some never do, lots of our members remain in the closet for fear of losing their relationship.

You say that you have been dressing for three months but you don't say how long your wife has known. If you spend some time looking through the forums, including past topics, you'll see that the issue comes up a lot. You'll also get more welcomes to your introduction and some of them will give their view. Consider what they say but the choice must be yours about how you proceed. 

Whatever you do, you will have this community to share with and offer what we can.

Enjoy your new community!

Allie x

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1712

@yasmin1628 

 Welcome to CDH, Yasmin!

 You certainly have come to the right place for all things feminine. Along with caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. 

 We are here to support and assist you in any way we can!

 Explore this site to find friendships, chat, information, tutorials, videos, and answers to your questions. 

 Welcome to our Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@serenasatin)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Quebec, Canada
Posts: 14

@yasmin1628 welcome Yasmine! And good luck with the SO.. it takes time!❤️

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Lady
(@collettexx)
Joined: 11 months ago

Reputable Member     Rabat, Morocco
Posts: 148

@yasmin1628 welcome Yasmin, as many have said this is a fabulous place to chat and make friends, best wishes xx

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Dame
(@aprilrhaynes)
Reputable Member     Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi, Yasmine! Welcome to the community. You will find so many wonderfully supportive people here and lots of information. May people associate gender identify and crossdressing with sexuality and, of course, they are very separate. Hopefully, your wife will come to understand and accept.

For me, it took many years of crossdressing in secret and a build up of dysphoria-induced depression before I gushed it all out to my wife....something I would never recommend! With the help of a therapist I found peace and happiness in a slow-moving transition that has kept pace with my wife's understanding and support.

In my case, coming out and communicating with my wife was the best answer. But, we are each unique and have unique circumstances. YMMV!

I'm sure others who have gone down this path will jump in and offer their own thoughts. You are among friends and are safe here.

 

Much love,

April ❤️ 

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Lady
(@gwen495)
Reputable Member     Country, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 4 months ago

Welcome Jasmin.  I am quite sure you will feel comfortable amongst CDH friends who may provide you with support and encouragement on your journey to be the person who you want to be.  

Cheers Gwen

Happy Woman Face

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Honorable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 8 months ago

Welcome Jasmin from across the pond here in Lancashire, UK. Hugs Lizzy xx

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(@aliceunderwire)
Majestic Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Yasmin,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Yasmin so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here .. With a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from girl do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts here.. With so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jasmin as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. When you feel up to it please return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get top know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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