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My femme name is Yasmin! Ive been dressing for about three months now but havebeen curious aboutit fir years. I love it! I live close to chicago and i dress any chance i get...im married but unfortunatly my wife does NOT approve of this lifestyle...she says tht it gives off homosexual tendencies...i am infact bisexual but ive never had an experince with a man...it has always been with women...and ive noticed that i only feel attraction towards men when im dressed...so maybe my wife is right? Idk....she know i dress in secret but i cant get her to get passedit enough for us to go out together and then come home to spice things up....im sure she'll come around itll just take some serious time
Hi, Yasmine! Welcome to the community. You will find so many wonderfully supportive people here and lots of information. May people associate gender identify and crossdressing with sexuality and, of course, they are very separate. Hopefully, your wife will come to understand and accept.
For me, it took many years of crossdressing in secret and a build up of dysphoria-induced depression before I gushed it all out to my wife....something I would never recommend! With the help of a therapist I found peace and happiness in a slow-moving transition that has kept pace with my wife's understanding and support.
In my case, coming out and communicating with my wife was the best answer. But, we are each unique and have unique circumstances. YMMV!
I'm sure others who have gone down this path will jump in and offer their own thoughts. You are among friends and are safe here.
Much love,
April ❤️
Welcome Jasmin. I am quite sure you will feel comfortable amongst CDH friends who may provide you with support and encouragement on your journey to be the person who you want to be.
Cheers Gwen
Welcome Jasmin from across the pond here in Lancashire, UK. Hugs Lizzy xx
Hi Yasmin,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Yasmin so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here .. With a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from girl do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts here.. With so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jasmin as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. When you feel up to it please return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get top know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass