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Hello, I am very new to crossdressing. I have never thought about it in the past. I have never had a problem with those that do crossdress, it is a choice for some, a need for others...who am I to judge.
This journey started with me manscaping downstairs about 3 years ago. Just recently I decided to shave my legs and I loved the feeling of smooth skin...I tried on my wife’s panties and loved it, so I bought my own pairs of panties...I then bought some pantyhose and totally loved the feel of the pantyhose...and now I want more. I want to dress completely as a woman.
But I am finding the next steps the hardest. My wife does not know and would not approve or provide any support (and yes, I know how she feels about crossdressing through conversations we have had). So, I am on this journey alone...until I found this site.
I am hoping to find inspiration, advice and encouragement to continue my quest to wear women’s clothing.
Hello Claire. Nice to meet you
Claire
we understand life is certainly hard and complicated but here things don’t have to be . Enter into a place where everything is hopefully easier to open up to. With others like yourself enjoy experiencing your love for dressing with no conflicts or judgements and to be comfortable with being who you are. And in time with the help and support will move you forward to express yourself with confinance to discover more about your femininity. Happy to welcome you and I hope to see you around here soon. Hugs!!
Stephanie 🌹
Welcome Claire!
Welcome! This is a wonderful place full of support, advice and people eager to listen.
-Jen
I agree with Jen, it's a great site. I also in the same boat with you, my wife does not like it or understands it, so I do my thing when she is gone.
Hi, hello, and welcome to CDH! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, tips, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful community.
Thank you, Samantha Roarke
Hi Claire,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Glad you found us! Yes, the clothes and their textures are so seductive, aren't they?
I'll add my voice to the others, this is a great place to spend some quality time getting to know others, and learning the differences and similarities to your own story.
I started just dressing, similar to you, by putting on a few borrowed things many years ago, and slowly got more and more into totally dressing up.
By exchanging ideas, and thoughts with some of the many other girls here has helped to better accept my femme side, something that I didn't always do.
Amy
Hi, Claire. Welcome. You're among friends here.
Hi Claire, Teralynn here. Welcome to our on line community. I think you will feel right at home here. I notice that your wife doesn’t know about your crossdressing as of yet. I would recommend that honesty is always the best policy. If she finds out by accident, it could really damage your relationship. If you do tell her, I would recommend 3 things. 1)Make sure you stress the point that you loved her when you married her and you love her now. 2) Tell her how crossdressing makes you feel happy and more comfortable with yourself. 3) Assure her you do not want to destroy your relationship, but want to hide this from her. Now only you can know what your situation is, but generally if your spouse loves you she will accept you for all you are. Or at least will let you know if this is something she can deal with or not. After saying all of this let me also add, if I can ever be of service just contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page will get the fastest response. - Blessings
