Hello everyone, I’m Jillian.

Hi Jillian

Welcome to CDH!

I'm a lifelong crossdresser too; when I joined CDH back at the beginning of July it was the first time I'd revealed that, or the fact that I'm trans, to anyone. Since then I've come out to my Mother and one of my sisters, which (fortunately) has been a very positive experience. I'm currently single so I'm able to live full time as a woman at home, which is a great source of joy to me.

I'm so glad you have a supportive wife who you can share this part of you with 🙂 That's the Holy Grail for married CDs.

You'll find that this is a very friendly and supportive community. The girls here are always ready to chat!

I hope that you enjoy being here as much as I have 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

Hello Jillian welcome to CDH I am so happy to hear you have a supportive wife that is a huge hurdle for many. I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or levels of closeted dressing or underdressing or public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. For some it means remaining private for some telling a select few ultimately you have to do whats best for your own situation and you ultimately know best. I appreciate you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence in themselves. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

Hugs April

Hi Jillian welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,

I'm a mature crossdresser too I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet too, my wife and family don't know I'm a  crossdresser,

I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

Hugs Rozalyn X

Hi Jillian
Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family.
It's a pleasure to meet you here.
You are in a place where it is really difficult to feel alone and abandoned, you will be able to find all the "sisterhood" you need.
Here you can exchange good opinions and information and find support to move forward in your female adventure.
Here you can have fun participating in forums, polls and questionnaires.
Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm hug.

I'm Greta, I'm a 57 year old CD/TG person who is living with extreme happiness the choice to undergo hormone replacement therapy; my life has been complicated for too long by having to hide my gender identity... not that it's easier now, but at least I've happily taken possession of my way of being.
When I'm alone at home or at work or I know I don't have LGBTQ+phobic guests, I'm Greta and I live my femininity freely, but if I'm elsewhere in places where I know I'm surrounded by dull and ignorant people I'm dressed in unisex clothes but of course I'm wearing my women's underwear.

XOXO from Italy
Greta

Welcome to CDH Jillian. You will love this site, the girls here are wonderful and supportive. I love that you have a wife that supports you and understands your gender difference. Visit our profile pages and lean a little bit more about us. I love being able to chat with other girls who feel the same way I do. I would love to learn about your feminine journey and share mine with you. You now belong to a caring wonderful community of girls each with unique but similar stories. I would love to know more about you Jillian. Enjoy all this site has to offer.

Hugs, Julie

Hello Jillian,

Welcome to a caring, accepting community!

Lovely to meet you,

Hugs,

Lara

Welcome to CDH Jillian. The ladies here are very friendly and helpful so don't hesitate to ask for advice.

Hi Jillian,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

Jillian welcome. Here find all that you want in helping you achieve that goal in getting out. Girls here are wonderful in sharing their experiences and always offering tips on how to make memories happen. But in little time you’ll see how many like yourself are experiencing much of the same things. Read their posts and learn more to better understand what’s ahead. Talk to our ladies whom love offering their help and advice. I myself have experience my first time out  years past and it was amazing. Being here at cdh help in many ways and I hope you see this too. Very happy meeting you and hope to see you here.   Hugs

Stephanie

Hi Jillian nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here..  As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jillian as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Please just do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. thanks  .. So girlfriend once more nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

P.S. please take a look up on left of page and see the Halloween contest rules and put on your prettiest dress or best costume and join in on the fun and win some great prizes good luck.. Then back up again please take our survey about how you think we are doing here thanks again..

I just wanted to say thank you to all of you for your warm welcome(s). I am sorry for my delay in replying. I have not had much time to spend online the last day or so. Not only that but I must admit I am not very “tech savvy” and learning to navigate this site has been more of a challenge that I anticipated. So nice to meet you all. I hope to get to know you all better as time goes on. Have a great day everyone!

Hi Jillian!Welcome to CDH,

Go right ahead in future posts - as you feel comfortable - sharing your cross dressing details. They won't bore me, nor most ladies here I figure - as your story includes having a wonderful supportive wife.  A gift, not taken for granted by any wise girl. I sense that you have wisdom, respect, love.

Connie, also retired now

Hi Jillian! Welcome to this wonderful place where being our true selves is embraced warmly….look,forward to getting to know more at Jillian

Jillian,

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

I am a totally private dresser, and joining this community was my first step out!

Glad I did it as it has been great being Catherine here!

Hope it will be the same for you!

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine