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Eminent Member     Swansea, West Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 weeks ago

This site came up in a search andI am pleased I found it. 

So, I am Jane from Swansea Wales in the UK. I am new to this site but have indulged in my lifestyle/hobby on and off for most of my life. Its always been fairly subdued until this last ten years or so when my then live in girlfriend found my secret stash, but far from me being ousted we talked and had a very deep conversation where be both set rules and we have never looked back. 

That girlfriend became my wife within a couple of years but its not been all plain sailing though overall its been pretty good. We have regular one to one datenights. No TV no Phones just music and conversation. The first datenight after being discovered was a real walk of shame, and looking back I was not very convincing mainly because of nerves but also because i had a couple of bags of clothes, nothing really matched. This actually helped as it gave her something to help me with and I think I have improved greatly in appearance and manner. Its been a joint effort but we both enjoy time together and I am a firm believer in discussing things and working out issues. At first wigs and make up were a big NO for her but now she introduced me to good brands and there are always lovely presents at Xmas from her. I was bought a lovely chanel perfume last year and Mac lipsticks which are the best. 

Dont go out much en femme but it has been known, and I do have a huge collection which makes matching easy. I dont have a network around me so finding a good forum has been a blessing. I hope to get to know some of you online. It will be nice to have a people around that understand, and I can put my input in too. 

Looks as if I can put my feet up and enjoy it here


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Reputable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 131

@tafftoonr Hi Jane and welcome!! Sounds a wonderful supportive partner , there is so much help guidance and support from so many lovely ladies on this site that is here for you x

Joined: 10 months ago

Illustrious Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 2649


Hi Jane

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl - and thanks for the lovely full introduction 🙂

You're about to find out that this is THE BEST CD/TG site on the internet. It's an incredibly warm and supportive place, and the girls here are amazing. You're going to feel very much at home.

There's lots to explore - enjoy yourself 🙂

And if you need help with anything, don't be afraid to ask.

Ellie x

Joined: 3 months ago

Prominent Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 325


Hi, Jane, welcome to CDH. You'll see the words, warm, friendly, supportive, understanding and caring used a lot here. Not because we lack vocabulary but they describe the place and people here to a "T".

Many of us have kept our secret for 50 years and more, so finding this amazing community is, certainly in my case, life changing (for the better).

Explore and enjoy!


Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 674


Hi Jane and welcome to CDH.

That’s a lovely intro you posted. It’s wonderful that your partner is so supportive.

I’m sure you’ll love it here. We’re all very friendly and love to chat, so have a good look around and enjoy yourself.


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Joined: 4 months ago

Noble Member     Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 419

@tafftoonr Consider yourself warmly welcomed in Jane, make yourself at home 🙂  I'm another UK girl, not too far from London. 

What can I say that these lovely ladies haven't already?  The community here makes CDH the most amazing place, I'm so glad I joined a few months ago and without wasting any time elsewhere!  You can be completely open and honest and speak your innermost thoughts here, and no-one is going to do anything except listen, support and help you if you need it.  This sisterhood has been instrumental in my embracing and bringing out my inner woman - I can honestly say it's changed my life 😊

Fiona xxx

Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Posts: 397

@tafftoonr Welcome, Jane! You found the right place. It's a great community here!

Joined: 5 months ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1054


Hi Jane, welcome to CDH.

Lovely to greet another UK girl. There's a fair few of us on the site. I'm up in Tyne & Wear.

Brilliant intro, and yes, we are just as pleased your search led you here! It really is the best place on the interwebnet for sharing and talking about all things crossdressing. You'll love it.

Your wife sounds like a treasure, you're fortunate to have her support.

Have a good wander around the various forums and articles, see what's what, and join in whenever you feel like it. Don't be shy to ask questions; we love to chat about what we do. Make yourself at home, and have fun!


Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1945

@tafftoonr Welcome to CDH, Jane!

You're off to a good start, Jane. Since your girlfriend still agreed to marry you and you are still together, that shows a tremendous amount of acceptance. Work with her and good luck.

See you on the forums.

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Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Love the use of the name Jane. Welcome to the site and hope you will become very much at home here. So nice to hear you have a supportive partner too. 

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Noble Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Welcome to CDH Jane.

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Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Jane. Welcome to CDH. Enjoy it.


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Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Jane nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here please look around and do some reading of the forums and posts with a few profiles thrown in for fun .. We are a a loving and helpful bunch of girls here so don't be afraid really girl we don't bite well a few girls do be careful (ha ha ) just kidding girlfriend.. I would love to join you for a drink at the pub but a big hop and a skip across the pond here in Montana USA..  Now girl if you or girlfriend would be interested we have a group here called For Wife's and significant others  just for them to chat with other ladies like her a gg lady if you will we cant access there side but they can chat and ask questions of us anytime they need a question answered so if interested its here for her  good luck girlfriend and say hello sometime ..

Stephanie Bass

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Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jane,

Welcome to CDH.


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Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi Jane

Welcome to CDH! What a lovely intro you've posted. You're going to find so many lovely, supportive ladies here as well as loads of great discussion and information.


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Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Jane -

Welcome to CDH


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Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jane, 

Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family,

I'm a UK girl too I'm up in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗

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Reputable Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 11 months ago

Hi Jane!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Yes, just put your feet up and enjoy all CDH has to offer. 🙂

Again, welcome to CDH!


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Estimable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi Jane, welcome to CDH 🙂

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