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Hello from an Older Crossdresser

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(@brendastevens)
Estimable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Hello Everyone.  My name is Brenda, I am in my 70's now and have been crossdressing for over 60 years.  I became interested in girls I think before I was in Grade 1, I just loved how they looked, I loved what they did and I loved what they wore...I just wanted to be a GIRL.  The pretty dresses, and this was back in the 50's, how I loved them and the pretty silky panties girls wore and the games they played, the way they sat around ane talked to each other...I just felt like I was one of them, but I was a boy.  I just so wanted to dress like a girl, but I resisted being told boys just don't wear girls clothing, but I finally broke down when I was 11, there was a pair of mom's silky panties hanging on the clothes horse in our basement...and I just had to.  I put them on and what a gloriously wonderful feeling...I was finally wearing Girl's Panties.  That was the beginning and has continued till this day.  I did my best to put panties back when in my teens and not to leave any evidence that I was wearing my mom's panties...but she knew...I am sure of it but we never talked about it.  Anyways over the years I began to wear slips and nighties and also dresses and skirts, nylons and heels and bras.  I did it secretly and early on felt I was the only boy in the world who wanted to dress like a girl.  Of course we all know now that we are not alone and can dress and share our feminine feelings with others who understand and share our desires to dress as girls and women.  How wonderful it feels to be wearing lovely lingerie and putting on lipstick before we slip on a pretty dress.  What a Beautiful World and what a Beautiful Feeling.  Thank you for allowing me to share this wonderful feeling together.

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Duchess
(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Brenda !

Welcome to CDH !

Great intro. I am sure you will fit right in here.

Hugs

Autumn

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Brenda,  welcome, happy that you did find us. With you as a long time dresser I’m sure many here would love to hear some of your stories and experiences. We’re always looking to learn more about this amazing world. Meet with some of our wonderful ladies who would love to chat and with some make lasting friendships. Beautiful place and one I know you’ll enjoy being part of . Very nice meeting you .

Stephanie 🌹

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Lady
(@rubycd)
Reputable Member     Malvern, Arkansas, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome

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Lady
(@coleenedin)
Active Member
Joined: 8 years ago

Yes it is wonderful I am not quite 70 but have been enjoying dressing for many may years. Thank you for sharing

 

Coleen xx

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 TAMI
Lady
(@tami)
Trusted Member
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi Brenda !

 

i got you beat by 2 years! I am 72 and love cross dressing and I wear panties daily and sometimes a bralette!

If you are looking someone in your age range to friend and talk with I would be honored to be your friend!

 

Love Tami ❤️❤️❤️

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Baroness
(@egirl)
Estimable Member     Tucson , Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Brenda

It’s so nice to meet you and hear your story! I am also an older girl and while I’ve always felt a strong pull from the female part of me, it only been the last 6 or 8 years that I’ve begun dressing and more seriously exploring my femme persona. I’m happy you are now part of the CDH community and hope to hear more from you.
Hugs and Kind Regards

Ellie

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Lady
(@sammatha)
Reputable Member     BELFAST, County Antrim, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Thank you for sharing your wonderful story.

Sam x

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi Brenda, I am 66 and understand what it was like in he 50s and 60s. I am still dressing now after a lifetime of purging, hiding and glorious moments of joy. Long may it continue and I welcome you here.Sandra xx

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(@candace)
Eminent Member     Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Brenda and welcome

 

I am 63 and have been dressing since a Halloween party my wife dressed me for. She worked at a friends beauty salon and well I am now we spend as much time as the girls as anything else and have for the last 40 years.

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi, Brenda, and welcome from another old (in years) crossdresser.  Although I've had the desire since the 50's, I only started about 3 years ago, and I'm now at least partially dressed full-time.

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(@jennifermcc)
Estimable Member     Mantua Township, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Brenda. So well put and I suspect a fairly familliar story to many of us here. Welcome!

-Jen

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(@stephiegirl)
New Member     oberlin, Kansas, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

welcome sis,  im 61 and its so great to be us girls, even if its only now and then    best of luck sweety  xoxo

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Brenda,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
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(@brendastevens)
Estimable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Tami,

Thank you so much for your lovely response and I would love to be your friend and chat every once in awhile.  Panties...I just Love Them...and other girly things of course.  Thanks again.  Hugs, Brenda

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