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Hello fellow gender fluids, cross dressers or however you define yourself my name is Britney! I’m 20 years old and have been cross dressing since I was 12. I call myself gender fluid but I don’t care what anyone calls me with or without hurtful intentions. I used to hate this side of me and had lots of shame about it and it got me a very bad drug habit. I’m trying to let this side of me out more to stay sober and be happy. My mom actually found this site for me when I came out to her this week. I love dressing feminine and I honestly can’t figure out why, but it makes me happy and I’m not hurting anyone so this is my only option and I’m excited about it while being a bit scared. Im a big guy and can’t pass unless everything looks perfect and their drunk. It’s not important for me to pass tho, I just want the confidence to go out in public while dressed up and make friends with similar interests
@britneyjolts Hi Britney
Welcome to CDH 🙂
I have to say, your Mom has directed you to the best crossdressing site on the internet. This is a very supportive and friendly space. It's also a great place to get advice and make friends.
There isn't anything to be ashamed of, and certainly nothing to be scared about. There also isn't really a 'why'. And I'm definitely with you on the whole 'makes me happy' thing.
The more time you spend here, the more normal you'll realise we all are 🙂
Hugs
Ellie x
@ellyd22 thank you for such a warm welcome Ellie! I’m sure my mom found the best site
@britneyjolts Hi Britney
Nice to meet you and please forgive me as you slipped in the door and i missed you joining us girls here so as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. As these other wonderful ladies have said please look around and have fun here we all love to chat so please say hello sometime ..
Stephanie Bass
Britney -
Welcome to CDH. You will find this to be a friendly place where you can make friends and get advice to help you in your journey. Be sure to check the articles, forums and join conversations in chat. That is nice to hear that your Mom was the one who found this site for you.
XOXO
Suzanne
Hi Britney, welcome to CDH. It's great that you have the active support of your mum, and as Ellie said, she has definitely guided you to a terrific place here. You'll meet lots of friends with all sorts of stories to tell and advice to offer. And don't be scared!
Take care.
@jacquelinelarkspur I'm honestly still surprised about how well she took it. I'm so looking forward to making so many friends and possibly a partner too. this site helped me be less scared.
Hi Britney,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Britney,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family,
I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, there are lots of girls on here from beginner's to full time girls who dress 24/7 we don't judge anyone on here it's a safe place for everyone, you have to be ashamed for we have all been through the same thing as you, we are who we are and we don't have to explain our selves to anyone, we don't use pronouns on here just names we call eachother by their name's and i will be happy to call you Britney X
Hugs Rozalyn X
@rozalyne wow thank you so much Rozalyn! I’m still amazed at how welcome I feel here and how nice and understanding and genuinely good people there are on here
@britneyjolts your welcome Britney,
The girls on here are fantastic, we have all been through the same sort of thing, only a crossdresser knows what another crossdresser has been through, the guilt the shame and the constant fear of being found out, well there is nothing to be ashamed of and we should all stop feeling guilty, there are a lot more things that are worse than being a crossdresser X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
@rozalyne exactly everyone is so great here and you’re definitely right there is a lot worse you could be stuck with than being a CD
