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Hello from Chicago

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Lady
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(@miastarr)
Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 7 months ago

Hello!  I have been struggling with gender fluidity for a number of years, and after doing a lot of work with a counselor I am finally ready to take my need to be feminine to the next level.

My goal is to start going out as Mia next summer. Until then, I have so much to learn both about who that side of me is as well as all the things I will need to make her a reality.

I stumbled across this community as I was doing some research and am so happy that there are so many others I can turn to as I embark on this journey.

I actually came out to my close friends this week, so I am so excited to finally get to be myself in every way.

I look forward to meeting all of you!

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 2015

@miastarr Mia, it's wonderful to hear your positivity. There certainly are plenty of us around and you can feel safe and secure sharing with the girls here. It's really life-affirming to be around like-minded people who share your aspirations and goals. Welcome to CDH and I wish you well on the next part of your journey. I hope you'll share it with us. 

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1704

@miastarr 

Welcome to CDH Mia, 

Now that the Pink Fog lead you here,you can explore all things feminine with a fantastic group of sister's! 

Come and explore this site for friendship and answers!

Fran 🥰 

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Managing Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2699

@miastarr 

Hi, Mia, that was a lucky stumble then! You will have nothing but encouragement and support as you embark on this journey. This is the safest, warmest and friendliest crossdresser community anywhere. We are diverse in terms of age, experience and goals but all share the love of expressing our femininity.

It sounds like you've made a great start with your friends, being a member here will help you take more steps at your own pace, you're not doing this alone 😊.

If there's anything you need or any questions you have, just pop a post in the forums, you'll have all the help we can give.

Allie x

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@miastarr 

Hi Mia,

Welcome to CDH.

There are certainly worse places to stumble into! 
It’s great when you realise that you’re not alone and there are so many other people with the same outlook as you. 
This is a really warm and friendly community where you can safely talk about this side of your life.
There are so many different levels of experience here, so just ask anything you may want to know, there will definitely be someone that can answer 

Lucy

 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4444

@miastarr Welcome to CDH, Mia!

I am glad to hear that you are getting some guidance on making this journey. You are also lucky to have supportive close friends, too.

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 178

@miastarr 

Welcome to CDH my dear

As you did , I started searching and reading all information about crossdressing here and when I read the profiles , I see in a good quantity of cases the same story and feelings, we are not alone , we have a sisterhood here to help other crossdressers to embrace and love this inner self we have and for me , it is the first step to follow your journey in this wonderful world of crossdressing and self acceptance.

Feel free to write me and to others sisters , makes friends here, all of your sisters here, we will help you in the way of possible to answer the questions you may haver.

Thank you for be here, and feel this place as a sanctuary, your second home.

Welcome  my dear.!!!!

Kisses and hugs

Odeth

 

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(@christineth)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Posts: 831

@miastarr Mia, welcome to CDH.  It must be a relief coming to terms with who you really are…congratulations for that.  I have come to terms with who I am and indeed embraced it and I now am loving being the girl I am.  I am so much happier and content…as I am sure you are and will increasingly be.  Good luck with your journey become more feminine.  This community of girls are very helpful and encouraging and fun, so I hope you enjoy it and get as much out of it as I have.  Hope to get the chance to chat sometimes.  Hugs Christine

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Duchess
(@3s3eve)
Joined: 2 years ago

Reputable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 152

@miastarr wow - good for you to take that step- it must feel great to finally feel free (I hope) to express yourself!

Hugs

Evie

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5867

@miastarr 

Hi Mia

Welcome to CDH 🙂

It's lovely to have you here! This is a genuinely warm and supportive community.

Although I've never had a counsellor I'm in a pretty similar position to you; I'm trans, I've hidden that from most of my life and now I'm finally opening up to others about my true self and beginning to actively going out and about in the real world as Ellie.

Mia, I have to say ... it's totally liberating! I wouldn't have been able to do any of it without the love and support of dear friends here on CDH.

I hope to see you around in the Forums, or one one of my occasional forays into the Chat Room 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

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(@vs4ever)
Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome Mia!! If you don’t mind my opinion you have found a wonderful new home!! The  ladies you meet here are some of the most generous, kind, thoughtful and caring people you will find anywhere!!

 

I hope you enjoy your time here!!

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Lady
(@miastarr)
Joined: 7 months ago

Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 50

Thank you so much!

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(@vs4ever)
Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Omg!! You are so welcome!!! I remember the feeling of fear and of hopefulness when I first came here and I remember the pure relief and joy when I saw how many others felt like I did. I hope you have the same experience!!

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(@aliceunderwire)
Majestic Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Mia,

Welcome to CDH.  Hope your journey continues smoothly.

Alice

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Reputable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Joined: 9 months ago

Hi Mia!

Welcome to CDH! I'm Sandie. 

I found this site also by doing some research on crossdressing.  And, I tell you, Sandie says she is so happy we did!

I was scared and nervous at first,  on here, because I thought i was alone in my feelings and desires. But, now Sandie is vibrant and happy. 

So, you have the love and support of all the other girls on here,  including Sandie.  So know that you're not alone, Mia,  you're never alone on your journey. 

Hugs,

Sandie ❤️. 

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Lady
(@lillie)
Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Welcome, this is a great group, every supportive. Hope you find what you are looking for in life. Use to live around the area.

 

Lynne

 

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(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Honorable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Mia welcome to CDH 

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Guest
(@Anonymous 98246)
Eminent Member
Joined: 8 months ago

Hi Mia,

Welcome!!!! This is such a wonderful place. 

Abby

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Mía.

Welcome to CDH. A very friendly, understanding and supportive community.

Enjoy the experience.

Gisela

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Mia.  You've stumbled across the best and most friendly area on the web. I am sure you'll feel at home and find all the help you need in your journey forward.

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Lady
Topic starter
(@miastarr)
Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 7 months ago

I'm sitting here crying because I'm so overwhelmed by all the well wishes and support.  Thank you all so much for the warm welcome!

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 2015

@miastarr You're very welcome honey. We're delighted to have you. Dive in and join the chat and if there's anything you need help with just shout. One of the girls will be able to assist xx.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH Mia!

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hiya MIa sorry a bit late to the welcome party but work in the way a bit much lately ha ha .. Anyhoo girl so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Mia as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Noble Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi  Mia    , 

 Just wanted to say.   Late  Welcome to CDH, !!!!

 It's  been a while since you joined, a few months ,   and the busy Holidays are over,   and Survive them ,  and a new year 2025 ...

By now we have probably starting to know you way around CDH and meeting new Friends ..

Any time you like to gurl Chat ,  ???

Huggs 

Stephanie 👠

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