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Hello from Dorset

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Lady
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(@mandylast)
Eminent Member     Dorchester, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 month ago

Hi everyone, I'm Mandy, late 50s CD who discovered my feminine side late. I'm in a relationship and she doesn't know. I'm not sure where I want to go but i do enjoy feeling like a woman.

Hoping to get some support and advice, so glad I found this haven.

Mandy x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2359

@mandylast 

Hi, Mandy, welcome to CDH, the warmest, friendliest and most supportive crossdresser community you'll find anywhere.

I've crossdressed for more than fifty years but I only found the courage to explore my own feminine side since joining here a year ago. I wish I'd done it sooner!

The encouragement and support you'll have here has enabled so many of us to make positive changes to our lives, a read through the forums will show this.

This is a safe place to share with like-minded sisters, the staff and members work to keep it this way. This is also a broad church in terms of age, experience and plans but we all love expressing our feminine sides. So, there's lots of knowledge here, just ask if there's anything you need or questions you have, we'll do our best to help.

Enjoy exploring your new community 😊.

Allie x

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1858

@mandylast Welcome to CDH!

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@mandylast 

Hi Mandy and welcome to CDH.

You’re not alone in discovering your feminine side relatively late.

There are also many of us here, me included, who have a partner that knows nothing about it.

This is a really good place to be yourself  and talk about this side of things with like minded, understanding people.

Lucy x

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Lady
(@mandylast)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Dorchester, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@lucyb112 bless you Lucy, it's great to know that there's some lovely people out there, especially with all the horrible anti people out there and how much power they're getting x

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Lady
(@dee2)
Joined: 1 month ago

Trusted Member     Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 41

@mandylast Hi Mandy, welcome. I am new here also.

Dee

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Lady
(@mandylast)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Dorchester, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@dee2 hi Dee, pleasure to meet you x

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 453

@mandylast Hello Mandy , welcome from another UK gal.  so pleased you are here.  I am the wife of a CD, who only recently found out myself, so if you ever want any info about how it went my end, happy to chat.  I hope you love being here as much as we all do!  enjoy.  Heart Up

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Lady
(@mandylast)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Dorchester, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@bellaz76 awww thanks Laura, I'm not sure I'm ready to tell the world, if ever, but I certainly appreciate any support you could give x

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 453

@mandylast I ma sure you are not, i found out accidently four months back, but hubby certainly has no plans to let anyone else know for some time, if ever, so totally know where you are at.  x

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(@katiep)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 146

@mandylast Welcome Mandy, great to see more UK girls here. Lovely part of the world you live in. Ask away on any questions. There are a number of members who have had the conversation with their wife/SO's and also Laura's GG perspectives, so please ask. Katie x

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 5 months ago

Honorable Member     Northeast GA, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 315

@mandylast 

Welcome Mandy!  I'm in my early 50's. I discovered my feminine side early but battled it for a very long time only coming to fully accept myself in the past few years.  This site has been so helpful to me and I'm sure you'll find the same.  

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5409

@mandylast 

Hi Mandy

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl - I'm in Norfolk 🙂

If you're looking for support and advice, this is the place to be. The girls here are wonderful!

There's lots to explore. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.

Hugs

Ellie x

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(@closetcelt)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     Kentucky, United States of America
Posts: 89

@mandylast Hello Mandy and welcome, I took am in my 50s and fairly new to CD. I'm sure you've come to the right place, this community is amazing

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 136

@mandylast hi Mandy, welcome to a warm and welcoming club from a lady that joined a month ago and has been enjoying herself ever since!

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Lady
(@erinb)
Joined: 6 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1187

@mandylast welcome to CDH Mandy nice to meet you welcome to this wonderful community you most definitely will find so much support and advice here indeed adventure around read some forms and you see it’s a comfortable safe place to be part of to be able to enjoy this wonderful life style indeed 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1334

@mandylast 

Welcome from across the pond to CDH, Mandy!

 You're certainly in the right place for all things feminine. With caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We're here to support and assist you in any way we can!

 Browse this site to find friendships, chat, information and answers to your questions. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@julie51)
Joined: 1 month ago

Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 80

@mandylast 

Welcome Mandy you are joining a wonderful community that will support and encourage you. Best wishes 💕

Julie

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(@jessicacynthia)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 231

@mandylast Welcome to CDH.

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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi Mandy.

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl.

I'm sure you'll enjoy being here!

Judy. X.

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Lady
(@mandylast)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Dorchester, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@judevderl thanks Judy xx

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hello Mandy and welcome 🙂

Nice to see another UK girl here. Hope you find some answers 🙂

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(@valentina16)
Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Welcome Mandy. Only 3 weeks in at CDH myself, but I can truly echo all the comments above. Although I did share with my wife, it is not a straight given that this is best. Though I am forming two slightly opposing views, honesty is usually best, at least to those closest to you, but also, acknowledge the risk that you might well lose your partner. And overriding all that, the truth that this desire will never go away, not entirely. 

Many articles, many posts, topics etc, many ready-to-help friends, all ready to chew the cud with you.

 

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Mandy, and welcome to CDH from another UK girl, not too far from London.  I'm another late developer as it were, also in my 50s. 

As well as warmth and friendship, and the answers to a lot of questions, I very much credit this wonderful sisterhood for all the support and encouragement I needed as I've transitioned to now live full time en femme.  I've made some very close friends here along the way too ❤️  So you're in absolutely the right place for all the support and advice you need in your journey, wherever it may take you.

Do jump in and come and chat with everyone on the forum threads, and there's also a live chatroom.  There's nothing too personal to talk about, and no such thing as a silly question!  Looking forward to getting to know you 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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Lady
(@mandylast)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Dorchester, Dorset, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@finallyfiona thank you, you are a treasure, I look forward to chatting with everyone, I'm sure I have a few silly questions to ask xx

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Duchess
(@joannat)
Reputable Member     Gwynedd, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Hi Mandy and welcome from N Wales. I ‘came out’ as a CD last year, at 55.

Hope you find this community helpful on your journey! 

Joanna 💕

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 months ago

Welcome Mandy from another UK girl in this case from up north in Lancashire. Hugs Lizzy

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Mandy and a warm welcome. You will find plenty of support and encouragement from girls in the same situation as you. Have a lovely time here.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH Mandy!

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Mandy so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Mandy as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. So girl when you feel up to it please return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Mandy,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@ajthairms)
Reputable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Mandy, welcome to CDH 🙂

Alicen

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Posts: 675
Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Mandy!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi Mandy    ,
Welcome to CDH!, I'm so glad to see you here , !!!

Huggs 💓
Stephanie 👠

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