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Hello everyone. I am Christa from Iowa.
It has been a few days since I joined and I am truly thankful for all the encouraging comments.
I started dressing up at a very young age where I would even stay home from school “sick” so I could try on my mothers things I always thought I was weird or something was wrong with me and try to stop, but as many of you know stopping does not really work. I have done many purges, only to buy an even larger cute wardrobe the next time.
I have been fortunate enough to have a few friends that accept me and I have been able to have some fun experiences along the way.
I am single, but I have raised a daughter myself since she was a baby. Now she is 21 and in college, so I have gotten to explore my feminine persona much more.
I am thankful to be here, and don’t hesitate to message me.
(Note: edited to remove accidentally huge area of blank space at the bottom of the post! Ellie x)
Hi Christa, welcome! It’s nice to see another Iowan here on CDH! I’m in central Iowa myself. My story has some similarities to yours. I tried to quit a few times before I accepted that there was no quitting who I really was. I’m divorced now, so any time I’m at home is femme time for me. Anyway, welcome, hope you find this a place of belonging, and I’d be happy to chat anytime!
Nancy
Welcome to CDH!
Hey Christa
welcome to CDH. Raising a daughter is a special achievement, and doing it alone is doubly special…so well done you. Does your daughter know about your dressing?
as you and others have mentioned, purging does not work, and it is so hard ‘throwing out’ those lovely girlie clothes. So it’s good to come to terms and embrace this wonderful and enjoyable thing that we do.
I am sure you will have fun on this site, the girls here are very helpful and great fun.
Hope to catch you in the ‘chat’ sometime.
Hugs
Christine
Hi Christa,
So good to see a new member! Thanks for sharing you personal story and a lot of it mirrors the same experiences a lot of us on CDH have had. Purging is terrible and all it accomplishes is losing a lot of great stuff that you'll just have to buy back all over again, because the desire to dress ALWAYS comes back, usually stronger than ever.
You sound like a dynamite person and if you ever want to chat about anything, feel free to drop me a line. You'll find that we've all basically traveled this same road together at one time or another.
Hugs,
Rita
Hi Christa so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so start by reading the forums and posts from sop many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Christa as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hi Christa,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Christa!
Welcome...welcome
Summer
Welcome to CDH Christa
Hi Christa.
Welcome to CDH. A friendly, understanding and supportive community.
Gisela