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Hi everyone! My name is Kim and I'm new here. I consider myself to be gender-fluid, but if I had to choose, I would be a woman. I'm most comfortable when that part of me is in control.
My story is similar to so many of yours, so I won't go into too much detail here (yet!). I've been dressing since I was about 10 years old. In my late 20's/early 30's I finally accepted who I was and dressed as often as possible and was going out in public frequently as well. Then I got married and put all of those feelings away for a looong time. Now, the kids are grown and gone, and I'm no longer married. It's taken me a while but I'm back! I've fully accepted who and what I am, and while I do care about what some special people might think (kids), I don't care so much about what strangers might think. Lately I've been out shopping (in drab) but I've been very open with sales people about the fact that I'm looking for things for myself, and you know what....they have all been very accepting of me! I don't know if it's my attitude or if people are just more aware and accepting than they used to be, but it feels great! Dressing has always made me feel good but being able to open the doors to that part of my life, to so many people and not be shunned, has been one of the best highs of my life (and no, i don't do any drugs!).
Anyway, I'm happy to be here and I'm looking forward to getting to know many of you!
Kim
Great to have you and thanks for sharing what many of us have experienced...You'll find many friends here girlfriend ❤❤❤ Chrissy
