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Hello from Ontario

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Lady
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(@longitude45)
Active Member     Brantford, Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Everyone, Erica here from Brantford, Ontario.  I've been a MTF Crossdresser for many years. Sadly, most of that time was spent in the closet. After the end of a very restrictive marriage, I met someone that not only supports my crossdressing but encourages it.  My new wife, and her adult daughter that lives with us, are comfortable with me being dressed around the house all the time.  We even go shopping together, and more than once, I've found them borrowing my clothes!  They even supported me in my disclosure to my own adult children. I've got to say it is incredible to have such support.  I spent many years hiding my femme self from everyone, though my ex-wife knew, she had forbade me from telling anyone for fear it would look bad on her.  Why I stayed with her so long (13+ years), well, you know what they say about rose-colured glasses - you can't differentiate the red flags!

I'm hoping this site will enhance my learning journey to being a better crossdresser.

..Erica

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5196

@longitude45 Hi Erica

This sounds like an amazing story 🙂

Welcome to CDH!

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. The girls here are wonderful and it's a great place to make friends,

There's lots to explore, so have fun poking around. If you need help with anything, just ask.

Ellie x

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Lady
(@tiffany8)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 119

@longitude45 

Welcome to the group my fellow Ontarioan.

Tiffany 💜 

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Duchess Annual
(@isabella22)
Joined: 6 years ago

Reputable Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 185

@longitude45 welcome from another Ontarian. Lovely story and great to have such support. Looking forward to hear more from your adventures! Denise

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@longitude45 

Hi Erica, welcome to CDH.

Your story of your former marriage to an unsupporting wife is a sadly all too familiar one for quite a few of us. I'm glad that your current situation gives you the freedom to express your inner woman safely.

As others have said, this is a wonderful community to be part of, so make yourself at home!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

Welcome to CDH, Erica!

Posted by: @longitude45

 well, you know what they say about rose-colured glasses - you can't differentiate the red flags!

Nope, never heard that that one before. Wish that I had, though.

Posted by: @longitude45
I'm hoping this site will enhance my learning journey to being a better crossdresser.

It should, but it sounds like you have some experience from which other members can learn, too. Welcome aboard.

 

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hey Erica, welcome to CDH. You're going to love it here! The girls are so so friendly, supportive and welcoming, and it's a really safe space. Read the forums and articles, have a good look around, ask questions.

Whilst we are all on the same journey we all have different speeds and routes. Encouragement from your SO is pretty much the holy grail here, so you're a lot further ahead than a lot of us. Personally I am still completely closetted 😢.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Honorable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome to CDH Erica. Such a wonderful story. I am so happy for you!!!

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Erica.

Welcome to CDH. It’s a friendly, understanding and supportive place. You will find useful information and tips.

Gisela

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(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Erica,

How wonderful to have that level of support at home! Congratulations!!

 Welcome to CDH! You will find a lot of support here as well.

Hugs,

Give Love Lara

 

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Duchess Annual
(@patches)
Estimable Member     Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome Erica!

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Erica nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and explore every inch of this wonderful girly site you are now a part of.. so when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Erica as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. If you please would you return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass your lower Western neighbor from Montana USA

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Erica,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@gisellereeves)
Estimable Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Erica welcome to the forum from an Oshawa sister

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Lady
(@sf)
Prominent Member     SoCal, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

When I saw this I thought Ontario California??  Welcome to CDH anyway. Great place to be.  

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

Posted by: @sf

When I saw this I thought Ontario California?? 

I was passing through US immigration, once, and I was asked where I was going. I said Las Vegas. He then asked me which one. I should have replied, "The same one that all of these other travelers are going to, since it is the only one with an international airport", but I didn't. I just started at him saying nothing. Eventually, he said, "I'm just messing with you.” He must have been bored or something. There are something like either 7 or 11 places just in the US alone named Las Vegas (I forget which) and about 60 world-wide. However, it is a question that travelers might be ready for when going through immigration, next time. 🤔

Coincidentally, there is a New York near the battlelines in eastern Ukraine, and about 15 places named Toronto, with one in our antipode country, Australia. It is a strange world, Staci.

 

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Lady
(@denises924)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome to CDH Erica! You'll enjoy spending time with these lovely, supportive ladies for sure.

Denise
❤️

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

 .Erica -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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