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I recently came out as a straight CD to my SO. It was revealed through terrible circumstances of me lying and betraying my girlfriend's trust by talking with another woman about it. I was never physical with the other woman, but we shared a far too intimate piece of each other. Since all this happened, my SO had come along side and we worked through everything. Now she is in full support of me, all of me. Our love has never been stronger for each other. Honesty and transparency saved my relationship.
Welcome. And yes, honesty is best.
Hi Geoffrey,
Welcome to CDH. Congratulations on having the full support of Your SO.
Alice
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Thank you, Samantha Roarke
HI Geoffery
Welcome from Australia
Its so great that your SO is on board
Paula XX
Geoffrey, welcome coming out to your Gf is a very difficult step as I know is I had in just the last year myself not like you I just started dressing in the last year also so for me it was very difficult. But joining in here help me in so many ways. Meeting with, chatting, sharing stories and best of all making friends was instrumental for me to accept myself and to have the confidence to pursue further . My wife has been supportive but with caution and has help me in little ways. She was upset, hurt disgusted , and most of all angry at me me. for why ? but not telling her earlier. Boundaries were discussed and agreements were met. I now enjoy my passion and am looking forward moving ahead so who is knows where this adventure lies. Best to you on your travels and happy to meet you .
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Sasha !
Welcome to CDH !
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Autumn
Great for you. My SO also knows. It's not her favorite thing about me but she understands that some of us have fetishes and we don't really know why.
The unfortunate thing is that countless couples never really learn about each other, being too nervous or afraid of what the other might say or think. What is the point of walking on egg shells if you'll have to hide something your entire life. If you met the right person initially, you could enjoy a much more fulfilled life.
My thing is slightly different. While my wife understands this, she doesn't get it. She cannot understand it like another CD would. I live an hour north of Phx and have hoped to find a married guy that dresses in the hopes of becoming friends, sharing this side that we cannot share with anyone else. I've imagined going out for drinks, talking about anything at all, without judgement because we both fully get it.
It seems impossible to meet such a person. Almost anyone I've ever come in contact with is either bi or is interested in exploring that side and not interested in simply communicating, enjoying each others secrets and having someone to share them with. Heck, I can imagine doing normal guy things while wearing panties and only he and I would know. How cool would that be. I think I'll never know.
Again, cudos to you and especially your wife for being so smart and cool.
Welcome!