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Hi my name is Meegan (sometimes), I'm 33 from Texas. I've been dressing off and on since I was probably 5 or 6 years old. It's something that I've always surpressed and kept to myself. I was married(technically still am) since 2014. My wife came out to me as bisexual in September 2019,which was very devistating to me(not that she was bi, but she wanted to explore being with other people). On the plus side it has gotten me to go to a therapist. In January 2020 she came out to me as lesbian and we decided it was best to divorce after several marriage counseling attempts(we still live with each other). A week after our decision to divorce I felt like I had to come clean and tell her about my crossdressing. She took it ok but was very unsure about it, which I think is understandable. We didn't really discuss it much until recently. She has since been ok with it for the most part.
I managed to come up with the courage to tell my therapist about it in early may. My therapist tells me that I need to accept that side of me rather than feeling ashamed and guilty. When I told my therapist it would have been a time that I would've normally purged all my stuff(but I didn't). I was feeling really down in myself. Lately I've been feeling better and have been trying to get some kind of support going. I joined an online trans support group last night, but I didn't talk much. I have a really difficult time talking about this stuff even if I know it would be a safe space.
I've even done an interview on a podcast about Crossdressing. I've really been trying to accept myself, but damn that's really hard.
One day I would like to be able to not feel so ashamed of myself. I think that would do wonders me.
Meegan
welcome, never feel afraid or nervous about who you feel you’ll wanted to be here with us all. Many here are in the same way and have in time learned that there’s nothing to be worry about.
Many seek help with online support sites and as yourself counseling. Important to seek these answers and receive better understanding of what all this truly means to you and where it may be heading. You have found a wonderful place where hopefully many of your concerns. The girls here are wonderful in making one feel most comfortable and welcome. The support is always felt and help to better understand and deal with this amazing time. Chat with and with some make beautiful friendships . Your not alone and here express yourself with pride and confinance to explore further in this wonderful world. Happy to meet you and hope to see you around here soon. Hugs!
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Meegan, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I am way behind in sending out welcoming posts but when I read your introduction post I knew I wanted to reach out to you right away. For anyone to find out from a significant other that they want to sleep with other people can be a devastating thing to deal with no matter if you are a crossdressing person, gay, straight, lesbian or whatever. So my heart went out to you the moment I read about it! Also your therapist was right on the money by telling you try and get rid of those shame and guilt feelings. Forget what your parents or friends might have told you, or what our culture says is appropriate behavior! This is your life and you must live it in a way that will make you happy and productive. The only way to evolve during your life on this planet is to learn how to live and let live and not be bothered by how others would have you live. Here at CDH your sisters will accept you just as you are! Assistance you need with your crossdressing journey can be obtained from our members. So ask questions, share experiences, get tips and advice and make a few friends. There are plenty of us to choose from and you really can’t make a bad choice. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Hi Meegan,
Welcome to this nice website! I didn't accept myself until February of this year and I'm 59. I have been in counseling for many years and reading self help books. It can take a while until something works. Don't give up!
Hugs,
Kay
Hi Meegan,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Meegan,
And a big Texas welcome from another local girl. Bettylou began to take control of my life less than 5 years ago, and I also had feelings of guilt and shame at first; but I have recently realized that you can be different and still be "normal". This thing we do is neither illegal nor immoral, and deserves to be accepted as such. I am finally at peace with myself to the extent I can now go out in public fully Dressed, or sometimes as just a guy in a skirt, and be comfortable. You can reach the same level of self-acceptance, and CDH is a fine place to do it.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Hi Meegan nice meeting you and glad you joined us girls here. I feel for you girlfriend and hope things will ease up and work out like others have said look around and explore this wonderful place their are many wonderful girls here to chat with ask advice from and become friends with . This journey you started is a life long commitment to your inner girlfriend as she is in your heart and sole . Please take your time with wife and your self to hope things work out for you and again nice meeting you pm anytime.
Stephanie Bass
Hi Meegan,
Hello and welcome from the U.K. it is really nice to meet you.
Thank you for the in-depth introduction, it sounds like you have been going through a challenging time, I hope things work out for you. There are lots of nice girls here who will offer friendship and support.
I know how you feel about finding it difficult to talk to others about your crossdressing but this is a safe place, I am always happy to chat so please feel free to get in touch.
Jessica x.
Been a cross-dresser for all my life and i really love it. So freeing to be totally feminine. I am in The Woodlands. What can i do to help you?
Welcome Meegan!
We should get together and have a chat sometime
Please Meegan don't be to ashamed. I know from experience that is hard to get past the shame. With the help and advice from everyone here on CDH I am close to stepping to the next level myself. We will all help you all we can.
Best of luck Sandy
I used to feel ashamed sometimes too. But my wife is more accepting now and even helps me. I urged her to participate and she now has a better understanding of me.
I used to feel ashamed sometimes too. But my wife is more accepting now and even helps me. I urged her to participate and she now has a better understanding of me. Ps. Also in the Lone star state.
Hi, Meegan! I hope you feel welcome here.
