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This has been a huge couple of days for me. But first about me. 50. Married. Three teenage daughters. Confessed to my wife about 14 years ago. She could not accept this part of me. I promised to try to stop. Of course we all know how that went! So I'm closeted. I go as far as I can go which usually is just shaving and wearing hose under my man pants. My wife is smart. She has to know what's up. But we don't talk about it. So what's huge? Joining this support site sandwiched by shopping trips. The first to buy heels (see my photo) and the second to buy a dress. My only regret is when the cashier asked if the heels were a gift I answered yes. Baby steps, right? I look forward to participating in this community.
Stephanie : welcome I must say love the name , hee!hee! O"yes enjoy being here . Talk to many of our ladies to chat; share a story or receive answers to questions you may ask. Baby steps is truly a way to go, not to miss any of the experiences along the way. This is a beautiful place to which I know you'll enjoy. Very happy to meet you.need anything please be free to PM me, love to help. 🌹
Hey Stephanie, Sorry you're in the closet still but baby steps is as good a start as any. Glad you found us and you are of course amongst friends here and there are girls here that are in your same kind of situation. Hugs - Terrisa
Welcome! I'm so glad you are here with us!
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Zoe
The heels were a gift to yourself. No regret needed.
Welcome Stephanie!!! Glad you found us. CDH is a great place and the ladies here are amazing. You'll feel like home here. Welcome sister!!!
<p style="text-align: right;">Great perspective! Years ago when I bought my first pair of pantyhose (love the femme name btw) I knew I had crossed a major threshold. I woke up this morning with having just bought my first heels and dress, as well as joining this community. I'm pretty certain I've crossed another major threshold with the door locked behind me.</p>
Maybe your wife's failure to respond to what she must know is a sort of "don't ask, don't tell" that eventually will move into an open acceptance--especially as your kids get older. Good luck.
hello and welcome to C.D.H. ere us girls are very friendly and under standing. i have been with this site for a few years and love it. found new friends to chat to and also get tips on how to apply make up better. knowing how others like my self started and how the marriage is going or not going. most of the wife's are supportive. wish mine was but she lets me dress up when 2 adults kids are not home
Hi and welcome!
Glad to have you in the forum.