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Hello I'm Allison

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(@Anonymous 99924)
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I'm Allison and my journey started when I was about eight years old, I felt like I was different from the other boys. I gravitated towards girl toys and anything girlie but my dad put an end to that. I just know that I didn't understand and that I was sad because I enjoyed playing with Barbies and playing dress up with my sisters.

I was about nine years old when I started trying on my sisters clothes. Any chance I had I would put them on. Later on I would go into my parents bedroom and put on my mom's clothes. I felt like I was in my element it just felt so natural and so right feeling this way.

But still I felt something was missing when I looked at other girls I felt left out. Dressing up just increased my desire in wanting to be a woman. In High School when I was a senior I did some research and I figured out that I had transsexual tendencies. Mind you this was in the 70's.

Through the years I still have the desire to be a woman but it is not an option. My religious beliefs won't let me, so I picked the lesser of the two, even though according to my beliefs this is wrong.

I have accepted who I am and I am happily married with kids, grandkids and great grandkids. My wife is truly accepting and understanding. I crossdress couple times a week and my next step is to go out in public as my feminine self.

Thanks for having me

Allison Give Love  

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5213

@allisonwannabe 

Hi Allison

Welcome to CDH from Norfolk in the UK.

Thanks for posting such a full intro 🙂

Part of the struggle that we all face is learning to love who we are. The support I've received on this site since I signed up in July 2023 has enabled me to do that. I'm hugely grateful to everyone here.

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You'll quickly find that this is a very warm and supportive community in which you can talk openly with others in a similar situation.

There's lots to explore! Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Ellie x

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4015

Welcome to CDH, Allison!

Posted by: @Anonymous 99924

my next step is to go out in public as my feminine self.

It's good to have challenging goals.

 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1828

@allisonwannabe Welcome to CDH!

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2192

@allisonwannabe 

Hi, Allison, it's a pleasure to welcome you to our unique community.

I suppose it should come as no surprise that it takes some of us until this age before we can fully accept our feminine sides, and as far as possible, introduce them to our daily life. I often say that I wish I could have been this happy years ago 🙄. Still, we're here now so best we enjoy it as fully as possible.

To do that, feel free to get involved in the forums and chat and, just shout if you need anything or have any questions.

Allie x

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1134

@allisonwannabe 

 Welcome to CDH Allison!

 Join in on the fun in the land of all things feminine. We're here to assist you in your journey. 

Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

You are most welcome here Allison. There are many who share your life experience and the conflicts you have. It is pleasing to read you have found a compromise and also a supportive wife.

I am sure that you will find the support and encouragement to further your experiences here as this is a wonderful community. Take time to look around and if you have any questions please ask and you'll always get a reply.

Enjoy your time here and we would love to hear your stories of your life as shared experience is beneficial to others.

 

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(@fatima)
Estimable Member     Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Joined: 8 months ago

Hello Allison, great to have you here on CDH with the rest of us. We all have our quirks and quarks in our CD pastime. Me? I'm a guy's guy until I strap on a nice pair of pantyhose and skirt, bra and long hair. Just had breakfast where we discussed the merits of Rem 44 Magnum vs .357 Magnum. Fun but I think I might try some skirts on later this aft. So you will fit right in. I do not think there can be anything wrong with crossdressing after all, cis women do it daily when they pull their slacks on.

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Allison your lucky being able to dress weekly as my living situation only really allows me to dress a handful of times a year. Hugs Lizzy

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to the group Allison. You will find a lot of ladies here who are experts at going out in public so don't hesitate to ask any questions you may have.

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Allison 

Welcome to CDH. It is nice to have you here 

Gisela

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hiya  Allison so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from do some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Allison as she travels down her own girly path in life .. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendship with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Allison,,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Allison!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi  Allison , Welcome to CDH , Marry Christmas & Happy Holidays to you & your friends & family ..

Would you like to be friends ?

Stephanie👠

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