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Hello everyone,
<p style="text-align: left;">I've never used a support site for anything before, as I am pretty shy about opening up (especially on the internet!). I'm a 27 year old just starting my sudden journey into crossdressing. I was just going out one day to buy lingerie for my fiancé and the next thing I know I was in a wig shop. The lady asked me what I was looking for, and then if they were for me. I realized I had been working up the courage to have that conversation in the car, and I decided to say "yes they are".</p>
Since then I moved quickly and have a whole outfit! I'm still confused about what's going on, but I had this feeling that I finally found a "missing puzzle piece" after about 5 years of strange panic, anxiety, and change.
I told my fiance pretty much immediately and she has been wonderfully supportive, although I will see her for the first time after telling her this Friday!
Thought maybe this was the right time to try joining a community for a change.
- Ann
Telling her is one thing, showing her will be an entire different experience. I’m a gg (genetic girl) who has been a supportive partner for about 15 years. He told me about his dressing very early on and I asked to see. From the first time I would see him become her, I applied makeup to enhance the look then he dressed into her. I was absolutely amazed at how beautiful and confident she looked. I feel in love with him thru her at that very moment and well our journey truly began. The best advice I could give is to be honest and open, no matter what, with each other. This will take you great places together. I wish you both a wonderful experience and know there are lots of us gg’s here if she has questions and is searching for answers to things she will feel once she begins this journey with you. It really can be an experience that can bring you both that much closer if you work on keeping the lines of communication open. Glad you are here!
Luv,
Thank you for your message. She already set herhard boundaries so our communication is good. I think she is confused about her feelings too but I told her this is my way of getting to know her as a friend. We met as romantic partners and I thought she would enjoy going on this journey with me. I hope my situation turns out as well as yours!
Anastasia welcome and now you are a member of a very special community , girls from all derversities enjoying a love of dressing. Having the support of a close one helps in many ways and now have us to share and Enjoy each other's experience and knowledge as we all move forward. Telling her so early is one thing I wished I did. Holding a secert is one thing but from a significant other is not right. As I know too well . It definitely puts unwanted pressures on a relationship after all relationships are supposed to be with total honesty and for this I she suffered hurt and many a talk was needed to help her and myself to continue ahead a worked out our problems. She suggested conditions and guidelines so for her time is there to absorb everything that is happening. Taking it slowly and happy were working it out and starting to enjoy a new chapter in our lives . She is the one that matters and as Luv has mentioned keeping the communication lines always open . One must keep this together and especially for me not move ahead until agreements are met. Relationships are so important and and willingness to be open should be upfront, secrets shouldn't be. Best to you both and hope your journey is fulfilling.
Stephanie 🌹
Stephanie,
Thank you for sharing, I am glad I told her when I did. I am feeling very supported and confident lately and less confused. I think I am doing the right thing exploring this and I am excited I have someone that I love with me on the journey. I look forward to being a part of the community!
- Anastasia
Hello, Anastasia. You did the right in telling her now then after marrying her, and I'm happy that she is supportive. Hope it goes well when she see your feminine side. Welcome. darling.
<p style="text-align: left;">Thanks you Eddie, I am feeling very welcomed indeed! I hope it works out too, and I'm confident it will!</p>
Anastasia you have come to the right place. There are hundreds of ladies here that have gone through or are going through exactly what you are hun. I know I was and am one. This is a great site for learning and figuring out your feelings with a lot of support. It is very scary at first and you have made some of the biggest step by talking to your fiancé and coming here. If you need any help please drop me a line love to chat and help you if I can. There are some great forums on here and some great information and if your SO needs some help we have a group here that they can come to and ask questions that is private to the SO so they can feel secure and comfortable. I am so happy you have finally found yourself and feel more at easy. I would love to chat so welcome to CDH again and say hello anytime.
Sara Marie
PS I think your pic in your avatar is cute. : )
