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Hello everyone, I’m Emmaline from Calgary. I’m new to this site and to cross dressing. I’m unsure how this will unfold and how far it will go. I know it’s exciting so far.
not sure how my spouse will react if/ when I tell her or she finds out. X
Hello Emmaline! welcome to CDH, I hope you enjoy it here as much as I have. There are a lot of great ladies here that share your enthusiasm.
hugs
AnnaBeth
Hi Emmaline
Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven. You couldn't have come to a better place! This is an incredibly friendly and welcoming community. I have been a member for five weeks now; in that short time I have learned a huge amount, and it's really helped me on my crossdressing journey. Plus, I've made some firm friends <3
So ... relax, explore, enjoy. And if you need any help or advice just holler!
Hugs
Ellie x
Hi Emmaline, and welcome to a wonderful place where you can make new friends and share your experiences in safety and security. I too am a 'senior' crossdresser, several years older than you. When I resumed crossdressing about seven years ago, after a long absence, I decide to tell my wife right up front. But rather than doing it myself I had my sister, who is also my wife's best friend, slowly get her accepting my unusual 'pastime'. She was initially appalled, but eventually came around to now we pose together for photos of us in girly costumes, some of which we have hanging on the wall of our guest room I am still a bit guarded and know when I have pushed the envelope too much. My only advice to you is to take "baby steps", slowly 'peeling the onion' and quickly backing off when and if it becomes apparent it is not the time or place. A friend of mine recently tried this tactic and it worked out very well for them. But as I am sure you are aware, there is no "one-size-fits-all" solution to this. I only know that being out in the open with my desire to explore my feminine side has made my experience so much more enjoyable, and I am sure it will be the same for you. Hugs, Paulette
Many thanks for those kind words and advice. That’s what I thought myself. Currently I do t have anywhere to ‘hide’ my stuff so things are minimal. I’m working on my nails and moisturizing lime mad, practising walking in heels when no one’s about.
keep in touch
Emmaline x
Thanks Ellie
you are a recent member also. I’d love to catch up and swap ideas and feelings if you don’t mind.
emmaline x
Thanks AnnaBeth
means a lot. I hope to make friends and hopefully progress my feminine side but it’s difficult in secret and when you have nowhere to store your ‘stuff’
keep in touch
Emmaline x
Not at all ... I'll send you a friend request!
Ellie x
Hi Emmaline,
FWIW my experience and observation lead me to believe that being CD is better told to a spouse than found out by her or him.
Glad you’re here!
Hugs & kisses,
W.
Thanks Wanda ill bear that in mind. Not just yet though!
love Emmaline x
Hi Emmaline,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Emmaline, welcome!
I only just joined this community about 48 hours ago and was till now hiding my CD activities from my husband. Only just hours ago, I came out to him, after reading a lot of posts about coming out or not.
Okay, maybe I'm a bit if a coming out veteran (came out as a gay man 23 years ago), and have a very open-minded husband, but still I felt so much relief and could also see the relief on his face that I did not keep this a secret for him for long.
But the fear and axiety I have been feeling till tonight are still echoing in the back of my mind, so I really understand how difficult it is.
I can only hope that whén your come out, your spouse is going to react as understanding as mine did. Meanwhile I hope you'll find friendship and safety here.
Big hug, Frédérique
Hello frederique
thanks for the awesome welcome. Congrats on coming out- again. I can’t imagine how you did it. My wife will be mortified. Maybe we can be friends? I need lots of help and advice
Emmaline x
Hi Emmaline nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Emmaline as she travels down her own girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Like myself here in Montana USA just a couple of miles away ha ha .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Welcome to CDH. Take kne step at a time. This is a friendly group and get advice whn you ask.Enjoy the feminine side in yiu