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I’m Lisa an I’m currently living in Palm Springs going through a divorce I’m looking to separate from my wife I’m tired of faking to be a man I’ve always been feminine since I was 6 I tried an felt more secure in panties an satin clothes I feel so trapped. I’m sorry to lay this all out there it’s just I have no one to talk to or get away an be free with I want my freedom so bad it’s tough but I joined this to meet new friends I can have a outlet of freedom I guess but I hope you all have a great 2025
Welcome to CDH Lisa!
We have your back here! Your in the right place for all things feminine. With caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself.
We will support and assist you in any way we can.
Browse this site to find friendships, chat, information and answers to your questions.
Your story relates to many here.
Welcome to the Pink Fog!
Fran 🥰
@gafran awww thank you so much I woke up at 4 am an I’m seeing all these messages I feel the love and acceptance I’ve never felt throughout my life I grew up in foster care so I really thank you for your kindness it’s so refreshing I most certainly kno I belong here
Hi, Lisa, welcome to the family.
Firstly, there's no need to apologise for sharing your feelings, you are most definitely not alone now.
Secondly, you could not have found a better place to share with like-minded sisters and to enjoy our support and encouragement. Ours is a unique community, we differ in age, experience and plans but we all love expressing our femininity and there's no safer place to do so.
Being so diverse, there's a wealth of knowledge among our members so just ask if you need anything or have any questions, we'll do our best to help.
Allie x
@alexina thank you so much Allie wow y’all are so incredible I’m so thankful I found you all cause I felt so alone thought I was a weirdo my wife telling me I’m more feminine then her at times in my mind I’m like duh I’m not meant for this masculine man you force me to be I hate my mom an her Dad forced us to get married an I’ll tell you it’s been the worse 5 years of my life I just want to get away Allie I need my freedom so bad or I’ll lose my sanity especially if I have to keep wearing these ugly boy clothes Allie an acting masculine around my kids it’s not me it’s all a lie my whole life is a lie an I’m so tired but you’ve giving me hope all of you thank you 🙏
@jessicacynthia thank you so much so happy to be here I’m so thankful an I totally need this or I’ll lose my mind 😂
@lisalovely Welcome to CDH, Lisa!
I am sorry that your marriage broke down. I hope that your crossdressing was not a contributing factor.
Participation in the forums or live chat may be just what you need to feel comfortable with your crossdressing.
@harriette hello an to answer your question no my crossdresser wasn’t the cause she’s just more aggressive an more dominant an wants me to be this super masculine man that I’ve never really been I’ve lived a lie I’m not a man I have too many female traits she found out I was dressing fem an was ok with it til she wasn’t then told me there’s only one princess in this house an not me so I have too choose between her an my crossdressing an my marriage an I’m choosing what makes me feel comfortable an like myself an most of all free. I feel so oppressed sis I want out so bad an thank you for reading an reaching out 🥰
@harriette thank you an I will soon as I can kiss these boy clothes goodbye for good 😭
@lisalovely In your profile, you indicate that you might like to transition.
Have you had any therapy or consultation about doing this? If not, then I would highly recommend getting some independent and unbiased advice as your next step.
@harriette yes I’ve had therapy an saw a psychiatrist they said the same thing my feelings are not wrong an I have to tell my wife an free myself or all break an need medication or damage myself in the process by fighting to stay an fake a life that doesn’t match my mental capacity 😞
@lisalovely I'm so sorry to hear about your situation Lisa. I'm sure it is difficult for you right now. You are in a great place here sister. There are many people here with stories very much like yours that you can learn from to help you navigate your future.
@lauren114 thank you so much as it is much needed as I prepare for the path ahead of me I’ve lived my whole life confused an conflicted but now it’s never been so clear to me in what I must do going forward so thank you for being apart of this process sis 🙏🙌👑💜
@lisalovely hi Lisa
We are a community of sisters we share the crossdressing as a common factor, to explore our inner female self.
Feel free to talk with any of the ladies here,myself included, and ask anything you need to know .just shout loud Hun!!
There is a lot of information in this site , I encourage to visit and learn more about this topics.
Awaiting your comments
Hugs
Odeth
@lujan2099 thank you so much an when I have time I’ll explore an most def ask questions your so wonderful I really do appreciate you beautiful 🙌👑🙏💜🥰🤩
@lisalovely Lisa, Welcome! You can relax now, you are among sisters. Sisters that are ready to help in any way we can. Welcome home.
@lisalovely welcome lovely Lisa to the best place for support , kindness and lots of encouragement 🌈🙏😍
@bellaz76 awww thank you so much as I know I need it rn I feel so alone at times so thank you so much 🙏
@lisalovely Welcome to CDH, Lisa!
CDH can help you stay comfortable with your crossdressing. The live chat adds a more intimate touch, but reading about other's journeys in the forums can broaden your perspectives, too.
Please include CDH on your journey.
Hi Lisa nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from girl do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times Lisa as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. So girl when you feel up to it please return to you profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
@fishingr8 you’re so wonderful Stephanie thank you so much for the warm an loving welcome also I’ll be putting pics up an filling in more of my profile wen I can get out this house an get dolled up I’m talking make up eyelashes hair o believe me I can’t wait I’m just still trapped in this closet girly 😞. I have to get away from the crazy woman I married an start all over again honestly I have nowhere safe to go but hopefully I’ll be ok thank you for your kind words your so amazing and i appreciate you all so much 🙏🥲
You are so very welcome dear good luck and take pictures as we love to see you all dolled up and feeling so girly he he ..
Hugs your sister
Stephanie
Hi Lisa,
Welcome to CDH. It’s nice to meet you.
Alice
Lisa
Welcome to CDH ,
Stephanie👠
Hi Lisa.
Welcome to CDH. You'll find out this is a wonderful community.
Gisela
Lisa -
Welcome to CDH
XOXO
Suzanne
Welcome Lisa and this is the place to offload and be supported by a wonderful community of ladies.
Welcome to CDH Lisa nice to meet you you definitely entered a community where you can be free and open and honest with yourself indeed you will find so much support and guidance styles that one may say CDH gets addicted lol tc
@erinb I’m so looking forward to it y’all are so wonderful I’ve never had a support system cause I’m so scared to come out to my friends and family cause they’ll shame me cause were Christian an I was raised one so everybody would turned there back on me so my plan is to get away from them all an live my life free an she with no regrets I’m tired of living the way they want me too I’m done being confused an controlled so thank Erin you beautiful an stunning Queen 🙌👑💜🙏
Lisa
Your most Welcome Lisa, thanks for your kind reply ,
Good luck Gurl
Huggs
Stephanie👠
Hi Lisa,
Welcome to CDH.
Joan
Welcome to CDH Lisa. You are not alone and you are not crazy. Look around the site and you will find many stories of how we all are similar, in one way or another. Feel free to look at the profiles and read more about each of us. Once you are more comfortable and adjusted then maybe some pictures for your profile? Drop a line any time. Hugs, -Traci
@traci429 awwwwwww thank you so much Traci and i totally feel at home here an I’ll engage more wen I can get free an il take pics most absolute rn I’m stuck hidden Lisa from my wife cause she so against me wearing what I want so in feb im separating an going to a LGBTQ homeless shelter so I can be free an wear my girly things an be dolled up permanently like I truly desire so thank you for your kind words Traci I’ll take pics soon as I can completely release Lisa right now I’m in a tough space I have to act masculine an wear these nasty boy clothes or my wife friends an fam will stone me😞 for being my true self so I have to get away an disappear. I really appreciate you reaching out as I have no one to vent too nor share my problems with hope I don’t kill your vibe
@lisalovely absolutely. Any time. You can send me a private message if need. I’m always open to help and suggest options. I hope things work out for you and you can move on. Hugs, Traci
Hi and welcome to this community from a UK girl.
You’re amongst sisters on here. You do you, the way you need to do it. Joanna 💕
Thank you Joanna 🙌👑🙏
Hi Lisa,
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
Thank you so much looking so forward 🙏
