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Hi! I’m new here. I joined because I heard a lot of positive things about this site. I’m 48 and have been in the closet forever but finally told my wife a few months ago. She’s been amazing. But I still feel insecure and alone and would love to know others like me. I tried to make friends and meet people elsewhere, but on sites where the focus is on the “fetish” element of dressing, I can’t find anyone who doesn’t want to “hook up” with me which is not an interest I have.
I’m hetero, love my wife and family and present masculine most of the time. But once in a while, I love switching to feminine mode. It’s fun, liberating, satisfying and freeing and it pings most of my dopamine receptors in a good way. I love it and never want to purge or stop ever again.
i don’t know what to expect from this community but I’m going to check it out and see. Nice to meet you all!
@reycd Hi Rey
Pinging your dopamine receptors is what it's all about 🙂
Welcome to CDH. Its positive reputation is well deserved; it's safe, welcoming and very supportive. Hang around for a while and the girls here will quickly feel like family. I joined up in the summer and I've loved every minute of my time here since then. And believe me, I spend a LOT of time here.
There's loads to explore. Have fun finding your way around, and if you need help with anything just shout.
Hugs
Ellie x
@reycd Hi Rey
Nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. Oh girlfriend as a new sister and family member here you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Ok Rey looking mighty cute in the red dress and congrats on having a supportive wife as many ladies here do myself included .. Look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here as they are on there own journeys in there femme life .. We all love to chat so ask away girlfriend also making friends here is as easy as a click have fun ..
Stephanie Bass
@reycd Hi Rey!
Nice to meet you too, sister. I like your femme name. My nickname is "Rev" and it's very similar. ☺️ You did the right thing joining CDH. The sisters here are very friendly. CDH is a loving, supportive community. Welcome to the family.
I sent you a friendship request. 🙂
Rev ♥️
@reycd I am like you and I do not know what to expect next. The only difference is that my wife is not accepting it
@reycd Hi Rey! This is a great place for you to start! There are a lot of like minded people here that you can share ideas with. I'm from the "right" coast but I believe that there are a lot of girls like us out your way. Hopefully, you can connect with them through CDH and make some new friends locally.
Lauren
@reycd Welcome to CDH Rey. You will find nothing but support and friendship here. We are glad you joined!
@reycd Welcome to CDH, Rey!
According to your picture, you have learned well in 20 years. Enjoy the site.
@reycd Hi Rey!
Welcome to CDH! I'll echo what others have said - CDH is great. Also want to say it's always nice to see another SoCal gal. There's a large community of us here. We get together several times a year if you're interested. Meetup info will usually be posted in the Palm Springs Gals group or SoCal Gals group, found in the Groups section of the site.
/EA
hi Rey .................. Welcome to CDH ...............this is nothing like those other places ...............just a nice place to girl talk ............share tips on things like how to hide your stash ................meaning ...girlie clothes ........(giggles!!!!) .......................tips on being out and about........feeling girlie ........and not attract attention to yourself ........................hey.....there are these fun polls? ..........that reveal a lot about ourselves ...................there's this one that will tell you how feminine you are ..............just a series of general questions ............I'm casually femme ............minor as male ................oh.......there are these articles written by members .......and poetry ...........you just have to check it all out .............................so..............drop me a line ........so we can girl talk? ..................karley
Hello Rey!
A warm welcome to CDH. The positive things you've heard about the site are true. You'll find yourself in lots of good company here, with plenty of discussion and advice only a few key clicks away. Have an explore, join in and have fun!
Welcome! I've learned some great advice from this site, and you're in great company here. Btw, I absolutely love that dress in your profile pic!
Hi Rey,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on, I'm still in the closet to my wife and family,
I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, there are lots of girls on here from beginner's to full time girls who dress 24/7 we don't judge anyone on here it's a safe place for everyone, this is not a pick up site its a site where we can come and talk about our crossdressing lives xx
Hugs Rozalyn X
Rey,
Fellow Angeleno here, at least the LA area. Welcome to CDH. I don't post much but I'm here every day just to see what I can learn, and it's a lot. It's much better than those other sites.
Stephanie
Hello Rey,
welcome to CDH, this is such a great group with lots of great people who offer so much valuable information. I hope you enjoy it as much as I have in the few months that I have been a member.
carla
Hello Rey, in the grand scheme of things we are a small minority but here at CDH you will be surrounded by so many supportive sisters! I’ve only been here for one year but this has been such a welcoming place and has done so much for my state of mind. I hope you enjoy this wonderful place as much as I have.
hugs
AnnaBeth
Hi Rey,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Welcome!
Wishing you many wonderful pings. Welcome.
Rey -
Welcome to CDH. As others have said it is a wonderful place to make friends, get advice and be yourself. Be sure to check out the forums, articles and chat. The chat room is fun as there is usually a fun conversation going on and it is a great place to share your journey and ask questions.
XOXO
Suzanne
Welcome to CDH, Rey. There are a lot of nice people here on the site to make friends with and it is easy to be able to be yourself. Welcome to the family sister!
Verlee
I know how you feel. I am in Ventura County and just enjoy being a normal male who likes to dress. Having been married nearly 40 years I am very happy with my wife and life.
Rey,
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive and full of sisters just on the crossdressing journey here for each other and not in the negative way you have found elsewhere.
You said:
But once in a while, I love switching to feminine mode. It’s fun, liberating, satisfying and freeing and it pings most of my dopamine receptors in a good way. I love it and never want to purge or stop ever again.
That describes me, but being without an SO and living alone, well, it is a lot more than once in a while for me, like daily privately, LOL! I love crossdressing too and never, ever want to stop. It is way too much fun and way too much a part of me. 🙂
You also said.
I don’t know what to expect from this community but I’m going to check it out and see. Nice to meet you all!
Again, expect a lot of friendship, support and acceptance here.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
