Hello Ladies and everyone I am from Oklahoma

Greetings from a 69 YO Mature life long Crossdresser. Not sure how to really progress here but will simply ramble a bit as I am sure someone will say something as how this is to be done.

Will start with stats:

Age 69 (last Dec)

5'6" (perfect for heels)

217 pounds, ( Yes I am curvy) but losing

Size 18 dress and 10 wide heels

Married 32 years (not my first but is all I need in life) to a wonderful Lady who knows that I wear panties and is ok with that but does not know of Kathy to my knowledge any way.)

My dressing started around age 10 with 4 Aunts who liked to use me as a living mannequin to put their dresses and skirts on to hem them, of course I had to have heels on so they could get it right. Oh, I hated it (on the surface) but deep down loved the swish, swish and it felt right. It went on until one evening, out of boredom I guess, they decided to dress me up fully, make up wig and all and took me out cruising with them as one of the baby sister things. OMG did I ever feel good, then Mom found out, oops! I did manage to put away a slip and panties for private wearing when I could later.

This dressing never subsided from that time on, although I was and in some ways am still closeted and highly discrete. Katherine Ann Winston was born and is so much ingrained and a part of me that I do truly feel it has made me a better person and has taught me toleration and to have patience. My male persona is Alpha and I am a retired Electrical Eng with a BS degree, but Kathy is not submissive but rather a subdued bottom who is as much femme as male and I love being Kathy.

Yes I still do the fixit norms of the male gender and fly fish and and, and, but if I have a chance to be in Kathy mode even for an hour I will succumb to that. Hope some of this makes sense. Here is a true story that will halp glue it together a little. In Wall mart the other day, in male mode of course, some one near yelled "Kathy!" at one of their children and I very nearly answered automatically! (blush)

So there is a bit about Kathy to share with everyone and I will answer any question you might have.

Oh, on thing, I am open and honest and have a tendency to tell it like it is. Also have a diverse sense of humor and love life! I do tend to be chatty and love making friends, though I am a wall flower, ahem! 🙂

Hugs to everyone and be safe out there!

Kathy in Oklahoma