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Hey! I'm Chloe, female, 2 kids and married to the most wonderful human ever. After having my suspicions for a while, my husband finally found the courage to tell me about his love of cross dressing. I'm so incredibly proud of him, and can completely understand his hesitation to telling me (a mixture of fear of judgement, guilt and confusion I'm guessing) however having known him since we were 7 years old there is nothing he could tell me that would faze me. Love is unconditional after all! I joined this group in the hopes of understanding and supporting him to the fullest. Any suggestions would be incredible! Thank you ❤️
Hi Chloe,
Warm welcome to CDH! Your husband is a very lucky man to have you!!
Kay
Chloe, welcome to our wonderful group. Many here dream of having so supporting and loving a wife as you are. More love and understanding such as yours would make this a much better world. Welcome again!!
Stevie
Welcome Chloe
You are a rare and wonderful woman, an accepting partner. Sounds like you have a great husband there as well. Hope you stick around and enjoy exploring the site.
❤️B
What a wonderful woman you are! My own wife had trouble accepting at first but now she has come to terms and allows me to wear dresses and skirts around her. She is slowly accepting Diana and even has her own song for her and Diana. It's Sheena Easton's For Your Eyes Only,
Welcome to the forum. We a lot of amazing people here who will be happy to answer any questions you may have or give any advice you might need.
Chloe ... welcome is so nice meeting you. Your a very special spouse and your partner is so fortunate. This is certainly the place you’ll find many of the answers you are seeking. Only a short while ago that I opened up to my wife after 40 years of marriage. I actually met her when we were young also. I was 12 and she turning 11. My childhood sweetheart and still together and very happy relationship.
It was a huge surprise for her and certainly very emotional. The biggest concern was the mistrust I caused and after all these years why now I held a secret . Between us we have never kept any secret and that certainly upsetting her. Seeing her and the hurt that it caused was hard. We had many talks and through this agreements and guidelines were set and together were slowly working it out. But Cdh and it’s resources helped my wife and myself understand more about our individual troubles. I learned more about myself and as it has been mentioned from others we have a wonderful group we have here exclusive for spouses where many GG gals like yourself could receive the help and support to get the answers your wanted to know. This group – private ( wives and significant others ) . For you special ladies where Cders are not allowed. Meet with them and get the support you need. Look into other forms written by others who talk about their experiences, their questions they may ask with many offering help and advice so everyone can understand better on so many confusing topic . Many face this troubling ordeal but be assured you have support and help from everyone here . Relax, get comfortable and enjoy being part of this wonderful community that really does care for all that passes through our doors. The best to you both as you venture through these new paths together . Very happy meeting you and welcome.
Stephanie 🌹
Chloe I just gave you a standing ovation for standing by your man after he finally told you about his crossdressing! I will send you a more detailed welcoming post when I have more time, but just wanted you to know how wonderful I think you are! - Blessings from Teralynn
Welcome Chloe!
Just curious... No suspicions since childhood? You are an even more amazing human!
No suspicions until we were about 18 years old, and suddenly all my tops and dresses were a little stretched out. I never mentioned it because I figured if I was right he'd tell me eventually 🙂
Wow Chloe very nice to meet you and as I will tell you as others have you are a wonderful woman and wife. not many wifes will accept us as your husband as a women in the home or as a new girl at home to be around . As we girls here strive to be a womanly as we can some with out any help at home you and like myself my wife is very supporting . We were married 37 years and when we were married I came out to her shortly after marriage and with a lot of talks and understanding we came to agreements as no going out and or telling anyone about Stephanie then get some house work done (he he ) we agreed and have fun sometimes when Stephanie comes over yippee so does the French maid to help her with house hold chores which is a win win for both. So allways have fun and be a wonderful wife as you are your new girlfriend will allways love you and help you as we do thanks for being there for her and us .
Hugs girlfriend GG
Stephanie Bass
Hi Chloe,
Welcome.
Alice
Hi Chloe, you are the best wife ever, thank you so much for caring enough to understand one of us. I had to giggle a little about your tops getting a little stretched, I have stretched a few in my life, well OK a whole lot of tops and dresses pretty well with every woman that I lived with. This is the place to be at for both of you& there is so much support and praise from everyone here it is unreal. I dont have the magic answer you are looking for & I dont think there is a holy grail of cross dressing but talk to your SO and listen, we have 2 ears and 1 mouth and all wear panties.
Chloe, Teralynn again! Consider this my more detailed welcoming post to you. I am still so very wonderfully impressed by your accepting and supportive way of dealing with your husband’s crossdressing. With your help I am sure he can overcome any feelings of guilt or shame he might have about it! There are many legitimate reasons why people crossdress and none of them make a person weird, crazy or evil. An understanding of why you do something can really overcome any negative feelings you might have about it, and having a supportive significant other will only enhance the chances for coming to terms with crossdressing in a positive way. If I can ever be of service to you or your husband please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help! A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. Somehow I think your love and understanding will be all the help he needs! - Blessings