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Hello Ladies,
I’m Stephanie, 36 years old, but dressing since about age 12 or 13. I have some earlier memories of having some desire to dress, but things really took off only once I hit puberty. Like many of you I dress in secrecy, and though this is not my first time revealing/talking about this subject online, I have never spoken about it with anyone in person. If I had to guess, I’d say that no one I interact with has any suspicion about me.
My dressing began with my mom’s clothing, and as I got older that eventually shifted to my wife’s clothing. I own very little of my own clothes, due mostly to cost and the stress of hiding it. It’s simply easier to hide it in plain sight, though that comes with a lot of guilt for me (another topic for another post).
I am happily married with 2 young kids, and this leaves little to no time to dress at all. Even wearing panties under my guy clothes is too risky for me. Not having the outlet at all can cause me a lot of anxiety at times.
I am joining here to hopefully stay positive, grow and advance in my journey, help others to feel accepted, and possibly meet others in person some day.
❤️ Stephanie
Hi Stephanie, and welcome! Many of us have been in those circumstances so we can symphatize.
I hope you will enjoy it in here.
Gaby
Stephanie welcome, happy that you have joined us here. You'll be able to mix in with many here to talk to and connect with ladies that are also experiencing this wonderful world we have embrace. Anxieties certainly do play a part in someone's Lives being closeted , alone with no one to actually talk to. Opening up is the first steps for you to start enjoying this wonderful place. Feeling accepted is so exhilarating and for me in little time it allowed exploring more about myself and to move onto new things. My latest is within a month Dec I will be going out in public for the first time. I'm scared yes but with knowledge and others here with their help, support and understanding it going to make this possible. I would never have thought of this actually happening but one never knows when confinance starts brewing and the nerves and anxiety slowly go away. Hope you experience your calling as life is too short. Do what makes you happy and I time hopefully you will be able to enjoy this wonderful experience with your wife. Telling her would be hard but in any marriage should be done. Trust is most important and a secret like this is certainly not good for her. Enjoy your stay and very nice to meet you. "Oh" by the way love your name lol!!!
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Stephanie,
I’m new hear too and have a similar story. I made my first post here last night and have never told anyone in person. Also in my early 30s, it’s tough to find the time and money to dress with everything going on. These are the first steps.
Trisha
Hello Stephanie,
Welcome in our midst. We share a great lot of experiences with you, and we sympathise with your feelings of angst and shame. Keep your up, sweetie, some solution will sooner or later present itself to let you enjoy your real self to the full.
Hug,
Catarina
Hi Stephanie. Im married too in my early forties and recently came out to my wife. It is hard but such a relief. She had busted me several times with panties and bras and i tried to lie at fist. She initially thought i was cheating, but ended up just coming out to her. I am working threw it all as well. Welcome!
Hello. I know where you are coming from. I am married with 5 kids. I told my wife before we got to far in our relationship from what I have seen or heard wifes don't react well to the news especially if it is keeps secret.
Hi Stephanie,
You are not alone. Many of us are in your situation.
There is hope and of course there is this wonderful community of like minded to chat with, learn from and share with.
When you have time check out the other forums, groups, chat rooms and wonderful articles written from the heart!
Regards and a warm welcome to CDH.
-Terri Anne
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