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(@vs4ever)
Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

Hello, I’m 56yo married male. I have had an ongoing fascination with ladies clothing, primarily under things, for decades. My beloved wife sadly doesn’t approve so I’ve kept my true interest hidden. Due to family emergency my wife has been away and I couldn’t resist. Purchased my first pairs of panties and bras. I’m hooked!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5210

@vs4ever 

Hi Victoria

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. The girls here are wonderful, and always willing to chat or offer advice. Many will be in a similar situation to you; it won't be long before they respond to your intro post.

Beware - crossdressing can be addictive 🙂

There's lots to explore here. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.

Ellie x

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@ellyd22 thank you so very much for your warm welcome!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5210

@vs4ever You'll receive many more when it gets to the evening where you are and more US members begin to log on.

I'm in the UK, so it's already evening here 🙂

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@vs4ever 

Hi Victoria, welcome to CDH from another UK girl!

You're in a safe place here, where you can talk about all things crossdressing whenever you wish with lots of like minded ladies. Many of us in in similar marital situations, sadly, so you are definitely not alone there either. Please feel free to chat, ask questions and generally have fun as a member of this brilliant site.

I wish you and your family well, whatever the emergency is.

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@jacquelinelarkspur Thank you very much for your kind words! Fortunately the emergency is over, so things will be going back towards normal. They can’t go all the way back because I’m not going to stop wearing my panties and bras when I get the chance!

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@vs4ever 

I'm glad to hear the emergency is over. And I hope you get plenty more chances to dress and have fun!

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@jacquelinelarkspur Thank you so much!!! I can’t imagine stopping now. I’ll have to be very careful, but the sheer joy dressing gives me is worth it

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(@steveterrill50)
Joined: 6 years ago

Estimable Member     Weymouth, Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 152

@vs4ever    You go, Girl!  No stopping now!  Just about all of your sisters here would agree!

hugs, Stephie

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@steveterrill50 Thank you so much Stephie

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Lady
(@denises924)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 210

@vs4ever 

Hi Victoria~
I am in a very similar situation - almost word for word. I have had such a wonderful time since joining CDH and realizing I was not in this alone. There are so many sweet girls here to get to know and benefit from their support and friendship. You will be glad you came - just like me 😊 

Denise
❤️

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@denises924 Denise, thank you so much for your kind words. I’m eager to get to know as many ladies as I can. Learn from those who’ve walked this path before me

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Lady
(@denises924)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 210

@vs4ever 

Same here Victoria! Beware - it's an addictive place 😉

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@vs4ever 

Hi Victoria,

Welcome to CDH.

Being hooked is quite common once you start.
Dressing in secret is also quite common, so you’re in the right place to find like minded friends, and to realise that you’re not alone.

We’re also very friendly and love to chat, so feel free to jump in.

Lucy

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@lucyb112 Thank you so much for your kindness Lucy. I’m very excited to get to know as many of you here as I can

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@vs4ever 

You’re very welcome Victoria, and I’m glad to hear that the emergency is over 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4015

Welcome to CDH, Victoria!

Posted by: @vs4ever

My beloved wife sadly doesn’t approve so I’ve kept my true interest hidden. Due to family emergency my wife has been away and I couldn’t resist. Purchased my first pairs of panties and bras. I’m hooked!

As exciting something new can be, because your wife does not approve, and you are new to keeping this secret, I can't stress being careful enough. This situation can go sideways very quickly.

Enjoy your dressing while you can, but plan how you are going to stay safe when she returns. Purge everything, store it away in a very safe place, or do something more bold?

Good luck!

 

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 848

@vs4ever my welcome also.  You can see we are a friendly sisterhood, but also helpful.  You can pose questions to anyone here.  For instance if you check out the featured photos, you might say I love her eyeshadow , or where did you get those killer shoes.  Send off a message , the ladies in the photo are happy to reply and help.  Also if you read a post and say that’s just like  me, send a message and find a close friend.  ENJOY!

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@missylinda Thank you so much for your warm welcome!

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@vs4ever Ive always had urges and occasionally meaning years in between had opportunities to dabble. a few years ago my wife had the same situation and she was away alot which lit the flame and became an inferno. Im fortunate as she knows and is supportive but I still only dress when she is away.  Which just happens to be today 😉 only problem is Amazon is late. lol. welcome and have a great day. RC

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@river Thank you so much for sharing!! Hopefully My wife and I can have the conversations we need to have. Now that I’ve dressed and realized how much I loved it I know it’s worth discussing with her. I saw no point in bringing it up until I knew if I really wanted to pursue it

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Victoria cute name by the way and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down there femme road in life..  So when you get comfortable with us please join  in with a story or two about the life and times of Victoria as she travels down her own girly path in life .. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Just please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@fishingr8 oh my, thank you so much!! I’m so happy to have found such a supportive group! I look forward to getting to know as many of you as I can.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Victoria,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
Topic starter
(@vs4ever)
Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

Thank you so much Alice!!

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Victoria -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@cdsue Thank you Suzanne!

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Lady
(@lillie)
Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Welcome Victoria, this is a great place to learn.

 

Hugs 

Lynne

 

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@lillie thank you so much

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Baroness Annual
(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Victoria,

Welcome to this friendly accepting community! Isn’t it amazing to find so many sisters?! Glad to hear that emergency is over.

Give Love Lara

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@secretpassions I am beyond thrilled! You ladies have so much I can learn from

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