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(@vikivee)
Active Member     Florida, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Firstly, I heard about this space from a girl I chat with on reddit so thought to give it a shot!

 

hi I go by Venessa, or Viki for short. I am 31 and have been closet crossdressing on and off for a very long time. I have never had a chance to go out dressed, but thats a goal to change in the near future. I love dresses, heels, pantyhose, and all of it! 

crossdressing really started for me in my High School days. I have purged my girl side a few times over the years and regret it each time. This time though, I am in a much better mental place. I also am getting ready to for the first time live alone as I can affort an apartment on my own now 

 

bit about me as a person. I work in IT for a managed support provider. We are third party IT that companies contract for various needs. Ranging from monitoring to do everything. Outside of work I enjoy books, movies, TV shows, live musicals and plays, lego, video and board games (chess is a favorite), travel, and more im sure I am over looking. 

I look forward to testing this community out and see if its a good fit for me, but first impressions are very good so far! 

thanks for reading my little ramble!

Viki

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@vikivee 

Hi Viki

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. The girls here are wonderful; it's a great place to chat and make friends, and you'll find that it has a VERY different feel to other internet sites.

There's lots to explore. Take your time looking around, and if you need help with anything then don't be shy about asking.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2212

@vikivee 

Hi, Viki, thanks for your informative intro and welcome to the family.

Many of us have been through the purge, buy, purge, buy cycle but there comes a time when we have to say, "No! No no no, that's plenty. I'm not going to stop this so I'm not throwing away so many lovely (and costly) things any more".

And then, if we're lucky - and diligent, we happen upon this wonderland and discover that we are no longer alone. Here are loads of others just like me, what a feeling of belonging and understanding!

Where was I again? Oh yes, welcoming you to this haven (there's that word again, maybe we can suggest a small change to the name...)

Allie 

 

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@vikivee 

Hi Viki, welcome to CDH.

 

Thank you for that fab intro. Taking all you said into account, I'm confident that you'll find this site to be a perfect fit!

Dressing alone in the privacy of your own home and regretted purges are part and parcel of the real for many crossdressers. You're not alone in either of those respects.

You'll find that a fair few of us here are "ladies of a certain age", but don't let that bother you; age is just a number.  What counts is the girl inside!

This is the best and safest place on the net to talk freely about what we do, so make yourself at home and join in the fun!

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Lady
(@chattycathy)
New Member     SPOKANE, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 11 months ago

Hello and welcome to the site. I have only been here a few weeks and I am very much enjoying it, especially the chat room. I have gone through many purge cycles myself and I know what regret is like. I am also a chess player, but not a very good one. I also love Reddit. Feel free to message me anytime, I will always respond.

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome Venessa. You've come to the right place. CDH is the most welcoming supportive site there is. You'll find girls here at all different stages of their journeys but we are all united by a passionate pursuit of our feminine side. Most of us have been through purges but I'd say generally as we get older that tends to fade and our desire to be girly is more prominent and confident. I was in IT until I retired happily a couple of years ago. You're going to love it here girl xx. 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Vicki,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Viki nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Viki as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships here and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Venessa.

Welcome to CDH. That girl gave you a lifechanging advice. You will love this place.

Gisela

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Viki and welcome!

Heart

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Duchess
(@amydoll)
Estimable Member     Leicestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 12 months ago

A big welcome Viki!  I think you got some good advice on joining CDH and am sure you'll love it!  Enjoy exploring the site and meeting the great people here 🩷

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome aboard Viki!

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Viki!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

I also think you will find you have many things in common with girls here on your CD journey (purging for example, guilty!) and so forth.

You will also find part or parts of your CD journey are uniquely your own.

For me that is part of the fun of being a cross dresser, much in common with girls here and some is just my own journey.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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