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Lady
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(@steffief)
Trusted Member     Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

Hello,

I am Steffie from Missouri. I am 47 married and very closeted - until recently I had only underdressed...but now I have found myself looking at shoes and dresses and how/when I could wear them in public.

Looking forward to making some new friends; getting advice and hopefully a place to share my fears and anxieties.

Hugs

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@steffief 

Hi Steffie, welcome to CDH.

You will most certainly make new friends here! There are quite a few of us in the same situation as yourself, a situation which presents its own set of challenges. So rest assured, you are not alone in those fears and anxieties. You're definitely in the best place to share your experiences, and to learn from those of others. Feel free to ask questions anytime; you're assured of plenty of positive replies.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@steffief 

Hey Steffie

Welcome to CDH 🙂

This is a WONDERFUL place to make friends - and if you have fears and anxieties then maybe we can help you to deal with those too.

Cross dressing can be a stressful and lonely thing at times, but the girls here are always ready to offer help and advice. We are, primarily, a support site for the CD/TG community.

This is an amazing site, and the more time you spend here the more it will seem like you've gained an extended family.

There's lots to explore. Have fun poking around, and if you need help with anything then just shout 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@steffief 

Hi Steffie,

Welcome to CDH.

There are plenty of closeted people here, so you’re definitely not alone.

This is the perfect place to do all of the things you’ve mentioned, so feel free to ask anything you need to know.
With all of the different experiences here, you will definitely be someone who can answer just about any question you may have.

Hugs
Lucy

 

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 159

@steffief Hi Steffie, you are in good company here at CDH. Many of us are in the same situation, I’m wearing earrings at home right now for the first time.
xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@sarahgirl409)
Joined: 7 years ago

Estimable Member     Auckland, New Zealand
Posts: 77

@steffief Hi Steffie , I hope you find the friendships and support I found!

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Guest
(@Anonymous 95235)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member
Posts: 245

@steffief Hi Steffie x

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(@elizabethstone)
Joined: 1 year ago

Estimable Member     Tulsa, Oklahoma, United States of America
Posts: 45

@steffief Welcome to your new family. It sounds like we have much in common. I’ve been here for a short time, but everyone has made me feel like I’ve been here forever! Looking forward to sharing with you!

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 851

@steffief are you near Kansas City?  I often visit there.

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Lady
(@steffief)
Joined: 12 months ago

Trusted Member     Missouri, United States of America
Posts: 38

@missylinda I am somewhat close...enough for a day trip anyway 😉

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Guest
(@Anonymous 95235)
Estimable Member
Joined: 12 months ago

Welcome to CDH , you will meet some great friends who will have hints and tips to let you enjoy this side of your life , I often go out with my girly undies on and a pale lipstick , no-one gives you a second look . Enjoy yourself and be happy .

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Lady
(@steffief)
Joined: 12 months ago

Trusted Member     Missouri, United States of America
Posts: 38

@sugden 

I will often wear girly undies - never thought about pale lipstick.
Thanks for the suggestion.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Steffie to this wonderful place where you can feel at home among friends.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi, Steffie, I'll add my welcome to the others, you've found a great place here.

Look around, read some profiles and posts and sigh that big sigh of feeling at home 😊

Allie x

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Steffie.

Welcome to CDH, a friendly, understanding and supportive community.  

Like many here I have had to deal with fear and anxiety throughout my life, and I have found a lot of help on this site to move forward.

Gisela Claudine

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Steffie nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Steffie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. So once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Sheffield,

Welcome to CDH.  Have fun shopping for dresses and shoes.  I’m sure you’ll find an opportunity to venture out in your new wardrobe.

Alice

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Lady
Topic starter
(@steffief)
Trusted Member     Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

Thank you all for the warm and welcoming messages!!!

Looking forward to getting to know everyone better.

HUGS!

Steffie

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Duchess
(@tina4098)
Joined: 1 year ago

Active Member     St. Louis, Missouri, United States of America
Posts: 5

@steffief Welcome from another Missouri girl.

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Lady
(@steffief)
Joined: 12 months ago

Trusted Member     Missouri, United States of America
Posts: 38

@tina4098 HUGS!!!

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Steffie and welcome!

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Lady
(@lillie)
Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Steffie, welcome, it is a great group.

Lynne

 

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