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OMG where do I start?
Normally I'am a very closetted cd. I use to call Chanel my alter ego but I've recently noticed the desire to be her more and more. My environment is far from accepting to this which makes it even harder for me. Which is what brought me here.
Recently I started dating a femal friend which I've known for about a year, but before I made our "situation" official I decided to expose my lifelong secret. As nervous as I was about being rejected, talked about, and abandoned she actually feel deeper in love with me. At times its a bit much for her but we always get through the day and she never judges me. She actually encourages me to be myself and go for what i want regardless if she likes it or not. She buys me clothes and we go ahopping together but I havent built tthe courage to be Chanel in front of her yet, she just hears about her. I guess my confidence isn't all the way there yet. Any advice?
Here to make friends and get advice, extremely nice and sweet so please don't hesistate to speak. Thanks
Hi Chanel! I am so happy for you to have found someone accepting and to realize how important honesty and openness are in a relationship. Keep that flow of communication open! Now the other shoe... don’t make everything about Chanel, just make her a normal part of everyday life. That was my lesson I learned by pushing Carolyne to hard down my wifey’s throat. Open honesty is critical and your girlfriend may reach a point where she sets some limits, listen when she talks. Us girls have a tendency to have selective hearing when our SO says something we don’t want to hear. Enjoy and be happy and most of all take care of your special girlfriend!
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Hello Chanel. I agree with Carolyne on this. Talk to your girl friend and let her know that Chanel wants to be friends, but don't force Chanel on her. You're girl friend will let you know when she's ready to meet Chanel. Welcome, darling.
Thanks so much, makes sense as I have kinda gotten a glimpse of that.
Thank you for sharing this!
That's awesome. I am here if you want to chat!!
Hello Chanel and welcome to CDH. You have a great opportunity and sounds like a wonderful chance to have a relationship many of use would love to have. As Carolyne said take it slow listen to what you SO has to say and keep communications open. It is important both of you talk about what you are thinking and work things out. I wish you the best and say hello anytime.
Sara Marie
