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Hello, Vonda here.

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(@vonda)
Eminent Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Hello everyone, 

I am so happy to be a part of the group and hope for connections and mutual encouragement. Many of you can relate to some of my personal experiences. I have always had feminine feelings but repressed them for many years. Many years ago, I was attracted to a MTF woman I met through work. Long story short, we lived together and were married for about two years. She was saving up for SRS, but because she had lived as a woman since graduating high school, we were granted a marriage license without any questions. Yes, it was illegal at that time. Later, I was in a committed relationship with a crossdresser for about a year. I loved them both, and they wanted a male partner, so I complied out of love. But secretly, I wanted to be them, if that makes sense. 

Over the years, many inner feelings prevented me from taking action. Inner doubts prevailed, such as that I was not pretty enough, that friends and family would reject me, etcetera. You all can probably relate. 

I have a lot to learn, but I am clear-minded at this point. I am doing this for myself, and I plan to seek out like-minded individuals to create a new circle of friends and family as well. 

 

Best regards,

Vonda

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@vonda 

Hi, Vonda.

Many of you can relate to some of my personal experiences. I have always had feminine feelings but repressed them for many years

Yes indeed, I have just commented on this in my welcome to another new member. I believe all men have a feminine aspect, to a greater or lesser degree but those of us curious (and brave) enough to explore and express those feelings are truly gifted.

You have most definitely come to the right place for help and support in your journey. Everyone here is genuinely warm, friendly and helpful. As you look around and read some profiles and posts, you'll see that for yourself.

So, welcome again and, if there's anything you want to know, just ask, we do like to help.

Allie 

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3859

@vonda 

Hey Vonda!  Welcome to CDH! 

Yes, I can relate to much of what you said.  I think many/most of us get to a point where we feel an overwhelming need to discover who we are....or perhaps who 'she' is. 

My egg cracked 9-10 years ago.  The dots started to connect a few years after that.  It's a lot of work!  But I'm so glad I did it.  The life I have today was unimaginable 10 years ago.  CDH played a REALLY big part in making it happen. 

Stick around.  I think you'll like it here.  CDH changes lives!

/EA

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@vonda 

Hi Vonda

Welcome to CDH, and thank you for the introduction 🙂

You'll find that the community here is a very warm and supportive one. It's also very safe, so feel free to chat.

There's lots to explore. Enjoy doing that ... and as Allie said, if you need help with anything just shout.

Ellie x

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1461

@vonda Welcome to CDH Vonda 🙂 

Everything these lovely ladies have told you about the community here is true - including Emily's absolutely justified description as  'life-changing'.  This place has really helped me to connect with my inner girl and, although there is some fall-out from that to navigate in my wider life, I've never felt happier within myself.  You are obviously determined to explore your feminine side fully, I really hope that the warmth and support of the sisterhood here does the same for you as it has for me 🤗 

You are in exactly the right place, the circle of friends and family you are looking for is just waiting for you to connect with!  I look forward to getting to know you better through your posts and chats and hopefully we might become those people in each others' lives 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

 

 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@vonda 

Hi Vonda, welcome to CDH.

Thank you for sharing your story.  It will have resonated with quite a few of our members. It's good that you're reaching out, and you've definitely come to the best place on the net to do so. 

There's a huge amount of very varied experiences to draw on here, so feel free to ask questions and seek advice anytime. You're always assured of friendly, supportive and helpful replies. 

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@vonda 

Hi Vonda and welcome to CDH.

As you’ve seen from the replies so far, there are plenty of people here that can relate to what you’ve written.

The main thing is that you’re no longer alone. There are lots of ladies here ready to help and support you through the next step of life.

Have a look around and get used to the place, you won’t regret it

Hugs

Lucy 

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Lady
(@vonda)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 19

@lucyb112 

Hi Lucy,

Thank you. I have a lot to learn, but I have finally defeated my fear. 

Best Regards,

Vonda

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@vonda 

Well Vonda, you’re in just the right place to learn x 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@vonda Based on your introduction, the way I read it, it sounds as if you defeated your fears by finally looking after yourself, rather than submitting to others.

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Vonda and welcome! Heart  

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(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Vonda.

Welcome to CDH. It's the right place to learn and find most answers you are looking for.

Gisela 

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(@Anonymous 85825)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Vonda,

Welcome and thank your sharing with us!

~Autumn

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Lady
(@vonda)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 19

Hi Autumn,

Thank you, for the sweet welcome!

Vonda

 

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(@jessicacd289)
Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome!!

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Vonda,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Vonda nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. Now girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. We all love a good chat so please don't be shy really girl don't know what you heard but we really don't bite then again a few girls do be careful (ha ha ) just kidding.. Have fun girl and make some friends as there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
Topic starter
(@vonda)
Eminent Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi Stephanie,

Thank you for writing. Have a great day!

Vonda

 

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Vonda!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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