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Hello everyone, just dropping in to make my obligatory "I'm new" greetings. I'm 40 and live in Maryland and identify as genderfluid and in general respond to she/her as well as he/him pronouns but in context here I'm effectively just Miranda. I have a tolerant wife, who is generally supportive but not directly involved in Miranda's activities (they haven't met yet but they've been in adjacent rooms). And I guess that's about all I have to say for now!
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Miranda
hello and welcome to C.D.H. my wife knows of my x dressing but will not help with make up or see me, but i know she sneaks to see me and how pretty i am and what i am wearing, i dont hide it from her any more i just dress up and walk into living room or kitchen so she can see me and leave back to my bed room and play x box. and enjoy my fem side. she can tell when i am dressed up for she smells the perfume i sprayed on. tells me too much. i love wearing female cloths for it feels more comfortable to wear. she should be happy for me to see what it takes to dress up and how long it takes and the expense of female attire. i buy my own dresses, skirts, nylons, make up, perfume and jewelry on line and in stores. i also buy my own pads . it is nice to have more x dressers come aboard to C.D.H. where we all understand and have been there.
Hi Miranda and welcome to CDH. Here you will find a lot of people sharing the mutual interest of expressing their inner feminity.
I have been crossdressing for about 40 years and regularly gone out fully dressed for the last five years. Feel free to contact me anytime.
Hi Miranda and welcome.
PM any time for questions or to chat.
I have developed from a CD to a transgendered lady.
I just love my feminine side and being a woman.
Thank you for the welcome. I don't have any interest in 'transitioning' in any direction other than where I am right now, because I don't see myself as anything other than a shifting spectrum that permits my existence at any degree I wish. So there's no real 'someday I'll transition fully' because often I already feel myself to be at either end of that spectrum - nowhere to go from there! 🙂 So therefore, I certainly don't do it to make a point of things, or as an expression of 'now I understand your side of things!' because I'm not Me for anyone else, I'm just Me for Me.
I had a long period in my early adulthood where I tried to repress that end of my spectrum, but it always kept leaking out and I hid myself in a closet as I felt I needed to at the time, for the sake of my home life - and was constantly caught and discovered and it was never the sort of idyllic 'oh it's ok I'll help you' -- far from it, it was almost a marriage ender and it was only through the incredible graces of communication and understanding and openness and honesty and compromise that we were able to come to an agreement that being Miranda was a necessary thing; that otherwise I'd basically be working half a body with half a soul. She tends to let me have first pick at her hand me down clothes, and doesn't mind me borrowing her things as long as she's had a chance to wear them first, and I'm the same way with my own. She buys me things sometimes with an eye for 'she might like this' but so far to date does not wish to see Miranda - nor do I think she peeks, or anything like that; it's something she is hard stop not interested in doing and not ready to consider yet. But she offers suggestions and sometimes gets a little annoyed when we go shopping and she buys things and I don't.