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(@erinstokes)
Active Member     Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Just joined.  I am 39 and in Kentucky (USA). I have tested the waters on dressing for many years, but only in the last few years come to accept I am a crossdresser and want to get better at it.  I am in a relationship so will stay closeted. Comes say hey or happy to listen to any tips you may have.

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Duchess
(@jamraat02)
Joined: 6 months ago

Trusted Member     FRANKFORT, Kentucky, United States of America
Posts: 36

@erinstokes 

Hello Erin, welcome to the best community for crossdressers.  I too am from Kentucky.  I'm a little older. Like you I'm mostly in the closet but my wife tolerates my wearing womens clothes occasionally. I wear panties daily under my jeans. I hope you find happiness here!

Jennifer 

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Lady
(@erinstokes)
Joined: 5 months ago

Active Member     Kentucky, United States of America
Posts: 2

@jamraat02 Thank you for the kind words Jennifer.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4950

@erinstokes 

Hey Erin

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've just joined a very warm and welcoming group of girls - some fully closeted, some fully out and all points in between. It's a great place to make friends, and a safe space in which to chat.

One thing you can be sure of; we all cross dress, and we all want to get better at it!

There's lots to explore. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2002

@erinstokes 

Welcome, Erin, to our amazing community!

If you have fully accepted yourself at 39, then you've done it 30 years earlier than me and I congratulate (and envy) you 😊.

Seriously, many of us have struggled to accept the feminine side of ourselves until later in life but this real family has changed lives. You'll find genuine warmth and friendliness here, the girls are lovely.

This is certainly the place to learn and share in your journey, there's loads of experience and you'll have as much support as you need. Just shout out if you need anything.

Have fun discovering your new second family (or third if you already have a second).

Allie x

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Lady
(@kyrabrooke)
Joined: 8 months ago

Reputable Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 147

@erinstokes Welcome Erin, so nice to meet you...feel free to reach out anytime! <3 Kyra

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1489

@erinstokes 

Hi Erin, welcome to CDH.

This is truly the best and safest place on the net for talking about what we do in all its forms. Many of us are closeted for the same reason as you, so you're certainly not alone there.

As for tips, well... where to start? There is so much to know, and the learning never ends. You'll find a lot of experience here, so don't hesitate to ask questions about specifics. Above all, have fun!

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@erinstokes I know exactly where your at and let me say this. The bad news is figuring this out with your SO, Significant Other ,  is going to be a challenge.  weather you find they are accepting or not. getting to that point is tough.  Try to work it in early in a relationship as it only gets  harder and as I have seen here some SOs get resentful that it was hidden from them. The good news is there is so much to explore when your just diving in and im jealous of that.  I feel like im always trying to get the same feelings as when I first realized and accepted I was CD and really dug my heels in 😉 .  Welcome to the family.  Cheers RC

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(@denimwear)
Joined: 4 years ago

    Other, Alberta, Canada
Posts: 697

@erinstokes 

Welcome to this very supportive group, Erin. 

Lynne 

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(@vs4ever)
Joined: 11 months ago

Estimable Member     Indianapolis , Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 43

@erinstokes Hello and welcome!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3843

@erinstokes Welcome to CDH, Erin!

You have the desire and enthusiasm to learn and dress more. I look forward to watching you grow and mature your dressing.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hello and welcome Erin,

There are many girls like you here and am sure that your questions can be answered and also read about experiences of others that may inspire and help you along. 

Have a good look around and if you have questions never be afraid to ask away.

 

Hope you enjoy it here in a friendly area.

 

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hey Erin. Welcome to CDH, a wonderful community of like-minded girls. Plenty of us remain closetted, including me, which presents challenges and requires ingenuity to create opportunities to express our feminine side. You'll find the girls here to be friendly and supportive. Oh and fun. Have a look around the forums and articles and tell us a bit more about yourself. Ask anything you like. The ladies will be able to help.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Erin,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Erin nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Erin!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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