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(@crazycynthia)
Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Hey lovely people,

I find it hard to make this post. Ive been crossdressing regularly for about a year now and love it. Especially the heels make my day. I love how it feels and looks if i wear a pretty dress with long heels. Makeup is a struggle but im surviving.

I joined this community in hope to find some girlfriends to discuss everything crossdressing with. Im by far not brave enough yet to share pictures or go to a club or something dressed but i would love to take that leap someday.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 6 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 645

@crazycynthia 

Welcome to CDH Cynthia!

 You just joined a worldwide group of caring, compassionate and understanding girls like you!

 We're all about all things feminine here. 

You'll find answers to your questions. Make friends and build confidence to achieve your girly goals. 

You're story is like so many of us just starting out. Explore this site for information, chat, friendships, tutorials and just be your girly self. 

Welcome to the Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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Duchess
(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 81

@gafran thanks girl 😀

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 1 year ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4590

@crazycynthia 

Hi Cynthia

You sound a little nervous about signing up here 🙂

I felt exactly the same when I registered back in July 2023. What was I letting myself in for?

I needn't have worried; the girls quickly put me at my ease and I've experienced nothing but love and support here from that moment forwards. I've made some amazing friends, and it's no exaggeration to say that being a member has changed my life for the better.

This really is a a wonderful community!

There's lots to explore. Have fun doing that, and if you need help with anything, just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

PS - other than a single profile photo, I didn't share any pictures until I'd been on the site for a year ... and I only started 'properly' going out en femme at the end of September. There's no hurry for any of this. Things happen when they happen 🙂

 

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Duchess
(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 81

@ellyd22 thank you for your very sweet words 😀

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1742

@crazycynthia 

Hi, Cynthia, you have most certainly come to the right place for friendship and, as for discussing everything crossdressing, just try and stop us 😂!

Welcome to CDH, the friendliest, most supportive crossdresser community anywhere. If your first post was hard to write, don't worry, all your others will be much easier!

No matter what stage in the journey you are currently at, there are others at the same stage, and, with the encouragement and support you'll receive from the girls here, you'll be amazed at how fast you progress.

I joined just over 9 months ago, after more than 50 years of hiding my secret and feeling alone. I'm still astounded how much my life has changed! Meeting others like me and making real friends has meant that I now embrace my feminine side (and discovered that she's the best influence ever!), and I've spent two days en femme, in public. Now I can't wait to do so again 😊.

As you read through the forums and profiles, you'll see how much we love this place and I'm sure you will too. Just shout if you need anything or have any questions and we'll do our best to help. 

Allie x

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Baroness
(@amylove2dress)
Joined: 6 years ago

Famed Member     South Western Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 2525

@crazycynthia

 Cynthia, nice that you found this place, and welcome! Most of us, if not all of us have been where you are now I know I was! I spent most of my life hiding from myself as well as from the world but now I've accepted myself and found a local social group to go out with!

 I was terrified to even join up here and backed out several times till I finally took the plunge and am so glad I did.

 It takes time to figure yourself out and confidence to actually go out into the world, and what's right right for me isn't always right for anyone else.

 Enjoy being here and sharing your femme side.

 Amy

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Posts: 85

@crazycynthia welcome, you'll find everyone to be very welcoming and kind here. Like you I only felt brave enough to share photos once I joined here and already gaining more confidence in being open about my feminine side.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 8 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1321

@crazycynthia Welcome to CDH. Makeup takes practice and experimentation and if you can find a makeup artist for makeovers or lessons, then that will help with confidence.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1521

@crazycynthia Hey Cynthia. The first post takes a little courage so well done you girl. Rest assured we all love crossdressing here, so you've come to the right place. There's plenty of discussion about makeup, and that first step out, in the forums. Have a good look around and get a feel for this place. But I can promise you that you'll find nothing but support, friendship and sisterhood here. The girls are all so lovely and will give you a real sense of belonging if you engage with us. Maybe start by telling us a little more about yourself in your profile when you're ready. It's lovely to have you on board honey.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Duchess
(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 81

@chrisfp99 done! Thanks for the tip!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3348

Welcome to CDH, Cynthia!

Posted by: @crazycynthia

I'm by far not brave enough yet to share pictures or go to a club or something dressed but i would love to take that leap someday.

Most aspects of crossdressing may seem daunting at the beginning. You don't have years of dealing with crossdressing when really young, you are dealing with a basket full of emotions and fears, you are building a new wardrobe, and so on.

Going outside may appear to be pretty daunting, but you can mitigate the stress by slowly gaining experience and by experimenting with style.

For example, winter is just around the corner. When you wear heavier, bulkier warm clothes outside, you can hide whatever you have underneath your outer layers. You can wear women's pants over whatever undies or stockings that you have on underneath.

Under a coat, you can hide your top and bra with forms, if you have them. You don't have to open your coat all of the way, so you can gain experience without attracting attention and completely outting yourself.

All while you are doing this, you are crossdressing in public. 😉

 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1413

@crazycynthia 

Hello Cynthia, and welcome to CDH. We're happy to have you with us.

Don't worry, there's absolutely no pressure here. Join in when you want to, share what you want to. Go at your own comfortable pace in this safe and supportive environment. And if you have any questions. please feel free to ask. You are always assured of positive replies. Have fun!

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(@Anonymous 98511)
Trusted Member
Joined: 2 months ago

Welcome Cynthia to CDH, makeup gets easier overtime. I never thought I could post a Pic of my female self but this community is very loving and caring and has helped my confidence tremendously to accept my true self.

Alexandria xx 

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Duchess
(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 81

@alexislynnt thank you! 😃

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 6 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 645

@crazycynthia 

You're very welcome my dear! 🥰

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH nice to meet you you joined a wonderful community that definitely can help on your adventure don’t be shy and don’t worry about posting pics of the big leap out take your time and do what’s comfortable for you TC 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Cynthia,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy browsing the forums and many delightful girls.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Cynthia nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys as the travel down the femme road they are on in life..  So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you are comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Cynthia as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Cynthia!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Reputable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi Cynthia, 

Welcome to CDH! I'm Sandie. 

You're going to find plenty of love and support on here.

So, enjoy!

Hugs girlfriend, 

Sandie ❤️. 

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