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I'm new here and wanted to take a moment to introduce myself and say hi to all you lovely ladies!
So a little bit about me: my name's Chris and, like most of you, I enjoy dressing up and feeling very femme and pretty! I enjoy it so much, in fact, that for the longest time I thought I was trans. I even came out, took hormones, and lived as a woman for many years.
At first this worked out pretty great - I was living the dream! But over time I came to realize that this wasn't right for me. You see, even though I was living perfectly fine as a woman, and people treated me very well, I always felt like I was pretending: like I wasn't a girl in girl's clothes, but a boy in girl's clothes.
So I did a little bit of soul-searching and decided to try being a cross-dresser instead. I got off hormones, cut my hair short, started dressing more androgynous for day-to-day stuff, and started treating dressing up as a special thing. And I found myself happy again.
Now, while this solved one big problem, if left me with a bunch of smaller problems. Like socially de-transitioning, for example, which is kind of a taboo thing, and something I'm terrified of doing. But also trying to determine how much to de-transition, because a big part of me feels like I'd be happiest being a full-time CD, going out en femme most of the time.
And this is what brings me here, to all you wonderful people! Because as I go on this adventure of becoming a CD, I'd love to have a home where I'm surrounded by other CDs, where I don't have to hide parts of myself or pretend, and where I can feel safe exploring my identity.
I'm excited to meet you all!
xoxo
-Chris
Hi Chris,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since I was about 8 or 9 years old when I tried my older sisters lingerie on,
I'm a UK girl so i can't meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you,
You can only do what's best for you hun, you feel better just being a crossdresser and not a trans and that's ok so don't be afraid because you don't have to explain your self to anyone you live your life for yourself and not others,
Love Roz ❤️
Welcome Chris to CDH nice to meet you community here is amazing you find a lot of support and guidance here indeed
Hi Chris, Welcome on board
That is quite a story and an unusual one at that. Most of the girls here ( if they consider changing genders) are inclined to go towards being a "full time female" but you have already "been there and done that" and are now going back to the CD lifestyle. This is different than what I usually read about here and very interesting. Other than is "not feeling right" were there any other consideration that made you change your mind? Did the hormones have any negative effects that made you want to get off them? Maureen
Hi Chris.
Welcome to CDH. A friendly, understanding and supportive community.
Thank you for sharing.
Gisela
Hi Chris,
Welcome to CDH. It’s nice to meet you.
Alice
Welcome to this fabulous place. These wonderful ladies are so amazing. I hope you make many amazing friends.
Jenna
Hi Chris, welcome to CDH and what an interesting story. It sometimes takes years to really find ourselves, sometimes we have to try things as much to see what we do like but just as importantly things we don't. Personally after a lot of research and thinking I decided medical transition was not for me, I am happy being who I am, I don't need to change my body to be happy. Yes it would be nice to have boobs, and some of the other advantages of hormones, but personally I don't think it is worth it, for me.
I don't see why de-transitioning should be such a taboo subject, it should be out there because there is nothing wrong in finding the real authentic you. It may also help others understand that medical transition is not necessarily answer to all their dreams and problems. I wish you well in your future life and happy to chat about CD life on this side of the pond if you want to....xx
Hi Chris, Welcome to CDH. I think that you've come to the right place. Nothing wrong with just being whoever you is.
Chris -
Welcome to CDH.
Thank you for telling your story in such detail, especially for you explanation of what the hormone treatments did for you and how they made you feel. I'm sure it will help some here with making decisions moving forward. I look forward to reading more about your journey and hope that you will write some articles about your experiences. This is a topic I don't remember seeing here before.
Again welcome to the family and I hope you enjoy your time here.
XOXO
Suzanne
Chris, welcome to CDH 🙂 What an interesting profile you have! Yours must be an almost unique viewpoint on here, and thank you for talking so frankly about it. But I guess at the end of the day you're still doing what many of us are doing, which is finding where on the male/female spectrum you feel most comfortable. You're absolutely in the right place for that, where you can express yourself freely amongst supportive, caring and totally non-judgemental sisters. I look forward to getting to know you through your posts, and feel free to PM anytime 🙂
Hugs,
Fiona xxx
Hello Chris. I am also new here. Happy new year.
I am excited to meet you too!
Hiya Chris nice to meet you as I'm a little late to your welcome party but happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from do some looking around and reading pf the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.,. s a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you become comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Chris as she travels down her own girly path in life,.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Welcome to CDH.