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(@quietman916)
    Mustang, Oklahoma, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

New here and to the thought of others knowing. I’ve been wearing lingerie for many years now. Recently I’ve gone way deeper and would like to explore more see where there is to go from here. I’m deep in the closet and full of fear, but I’m in my 50s. 

Look forward to getting to know some likeminded folks here. 

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1687

@quietman916 Connie, the very first thing is to dispel that fear. That won't help you at all honey. And you've just taken the very best step to achieve that. CDH is the best resource you will find, full of friendly and supportive girls who can help you on your journey. Take some time to look around the forums and articles and everything will quickly make sense. Dressing up is quite natural and should be celebrated not vilified. Pop some more details in your profile and join in the chat. You'll soon feel part of a wonderful supportive community. Welcome hun.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4952

@quietman916 

Hi Connie

Welcome to CDH - I'm glad that you found us 🙂

This is the best CD/TG support site on the internet.

A year and a bit ago I was in a similar position to you in that no-one at all knew about Ellie. Now, thanks to the encouragement and support that I've received on CDH:

  • I'm out to my Mum, one of my sisters and my neighbour.
  • I've had two professional makeovers.
  • I spent last Saturday night clubbing with two other girls from the site.
  • I'm gearing up to go to this Friday's 'Leeds First Friday' event as part of a small group of CDH girls.

None of this would have seemed remotely possible before last July. I've never been happier! This place really does change lives 🙂

There's lots to explore. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just ask.

Ellie x

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Guest
(@Anonymous 97944)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member
Posts: 319

@quietman916 Welcome Connie!  You will soon discover ladies like us are joining CDH ever day.  I too was 'in the closet' but this year I started thinking outside the box.  "Crossdresser" just never seemed right. After all these years I then allowed myself to wonder, "Am I a transgender woman?"  I let myself go with it, to try it on and see if it fits, read articles here, and posts, and more and more learned, yes, I am a trans woman.  Much happier and at greater peace with myself now.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 8 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 918

@quietman916 

Welcome to CDH Connie, 

No judgment here. You can be yourself and explore all things feminine. 

I understand the fear factor. We all pretty much have been feeling the same things. Don't be afraid to reach out here. You have a unique group of caring sisters from all over the world. 

Fran 🥰 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2002

@quietman916 

Hi, Connie, welcome to this amazing and safe community.

Chrissie @chrisfp99 puts it well, just spend some time here, read the forum posts and join in when you're ready. This was and is still, the only place and the only people, apart from my wife, that I've shared my secret with. That, in itself, lifted a weight that I've carried for more than 50 years, and the friends I've made soon dispelled those two imposters, fear and guilt and shame 🤔 those three imposters!

Here, you will have all the encouragement and support we can give and I'll echo what Ellie @ellyd22 has said, this community changes lives. Or rather, enables us to change our own, as much as we want.

Everyone is genuinely friendly and helpful so don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions, we'll do our best.

Meantime, enjoy discovering our home from home 😊.

Allie x

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Duchess
(@emilysouthern)
Reputable Member     Fayetteville, Arkansas, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Connie & welcome from me.  You will find & make many great friends here. 

fyi, you are less than 10 miles from a great group of active girls that i visit from time to time.

Best

Emily

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Topic starter
(@quietman916)
    Mustang, Oklahoma, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

Thanks, I’ll keep that in mind.

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome to CDH 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Connie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so with some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you are comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Connie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Connie,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy meeting others and exploring the site.

Alice

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Reputable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Hi Connie!

Welcome to CDH.  I'm Sandie. 

I understand the fear of someone finding out about Sandie.  I was very afraid people would find out about her.

But, CDH is a safe and friendly site for everything cd. So, relax and don't worry too much. 

You're going to enjoy it here being among like-minded girls.  Practically everything about cd is here.

So, check out the site, and you'll see for yourself. 

Hugs, 

Sandie ❤️. 

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Connie and welcome.

You have arrived at a great place for you get advice and read experiences for you to find ways to accommodate your needs to suit your circumstances and  blossom further.

Many girls  here are just like you and have found support and encouragement.

 

Enjoy your time here.

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